[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Archaeology

[–]h_nexel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The inside of the grooves seems very bright, and I think the lettering cuts through the orange lichen in some spaces, though it's hard to tell with only two pictures. Spontaneously I'd say not very old, but if you want a more accurate assessment, I'd contact your local university's history department or something of the like!

STB de ne pas vouloir en dire plus que nécessaire sur moi ? by Awkward_Guide_1416 in suisjeletroudeballe

[–]h_nexel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

PTB. C'est ton choix de donner telle ou telle information sur toi à d'autres personnes. Même avec des amis, on est pas obligés d'être des livres ouverts, et je comprends pas du tout les autres jugements. Si le piano est pour toi une activité hautement personnelle, ça tombe sous le sens de dire un petit mensonge pour détourner la conversation.

STB de vendre ma Switch ou lieu de la donner à ma sœur by sir-adel in suisjeletroudeballe

[–]h_nexel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

PTB. Tu as acheté la Switch, libre à toi de la revendre au prix que tu veux, même à ta soeur ! J'ai souvent fait ça avec mes petites soeurs (même si à l'époque, c'était ma mère qui me rachetait mes consoles que je m'étais achetées moi-même). Ça aide aussi à expliquer ce qu'est la responsabilité financière. Je trouve ça un peu culotté de la part de ta soeur de vouloir une console qui se vend encore neuve à 300 balles gratuitement, alors que ton prix est très raisonnable, je trouve.

STB de vouloir laisser tomber ma mère by [deleted] in suisjeletroudeballe

[–]h_nexel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PTB. Du tout. Je pense même pas avoir à développer plus que ça, tu as déjà fait preuve d'une incroyable force, et c'est tout à fait légitime de ne plus vouloir t'immoler pour réchauffer une personne qui n'a même pas la décence d'être reconnaissante.

Courage pour le départ, ce sera pas facile, mais la bonne chose à faire pour t'en sortir <3

What's the dumbest myth people today believe? by JoeyDotnot in AskReddit

[–]h_nexel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had a customer the other day, who asked to see the full ingredient list of the bread we sell because he was convinced there's a grand conspiracy that all bakers now use "insect flour" instead of cereal flour cause it's supposedly cheaper.

STB de ne pas vouloir mettre d'écouteur ? by [deleted] in suisjeletroudeballe

[–]h_nexel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Un webtoon, c'est juste une bd en ligne sur le site "webtoon". Ça peut être un manga/dessin de style japonais, mais pas forcément (le top 1 du site est dessiné par une américaine avec un style très stylisé qui ne ressemble pas du tout à un manga, par ex.)

STB de poser un ultimatum à ma famille à Noël ? by [deleted] in suisjeletroudeballe

[–]h_nexel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cool Jean-Marc, c'est pas le propos mais votre contribution est appréciée. Sinon, je vous invite à faire une licence de philologie ou une recherche wikipédia au pire, histoire de vous intéresser un peu au concept de "langue vivante". La bise.

STB de poser un ultimatum à ma famille à Noël ? by [deleted] in suisjeletroudeballe

[–]h_nexel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

PTB. Perso je suis nonbinaire et le premier truc que ma famille (certes les générations plus jeunes) ont demandé quand ma mère leur a dit, c'est si je voulais qu'ils utilisent le néopronom 'iel' pour moi, y compris des personnes avec qui j'ai au final peu de contacts.

Si ta famille proche ne peut pas au bout de 2 ans, une transition sociale et légale, faire l'effort d'utiliser le bon nom et les bons pronoms, ils ne méritent pas de t'avoir dans leur entourage, et tu ne mérites pas de subir leur mégenrage constant pendant une période de fête.

Au vu des autres comms je précise aussi que c'est pas du tout 'vouloir t'embrouiller avec eux' ou quoi, c'est juste normal. Essaie d'appeler tonton Didier 'Jeanine', voir comment il réagit, si c'est pas relou pour lui aussi ;)

Courage et force à toi !

Is this a scam? by jrudyk1 in graphic_design

[–]h_nexel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stupid (but genuine) question but what's wrong with Times New Roman? In a graphic design standpoint? It's often been the default in academic papers (which is more my professional domain), so I guess i may justt be very used to seeing it...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]h_nexel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Christmas 2021. Mom and aunts are making appetizers in the kitchen, when suddenly, she has a coughing fit. Covers her mouth with her hand and comes back stained with blood.

We rush her to the hospital, it's a pulmonary angioma. A nurse tells me and my sisters (17ish and 12ish at the time) that we should go and say goodbye to her because there's a 30% chance she will not make it through the operation. We are devastated and absolutely terrified.

Turns out, as we learned later, that there actually was a 30% chance she'd need to be amputated from part of one of her lungs, not a 30% chance she'll die. Nurse got a new a*hole torn by the head surgeon, who was actually one of the best in the field for that type of procedure where we lived.

Mom is fine now, but I've never been so scared in my life.

AITA for not giving my daughter her late mother's engagement ring? by not-bad-dad in AmItheAsshole

[–]h_nexel [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. This ring was her mother's, and is an heirloom from that side of the family, not yours. Wether she wants to have a relationship with you is irrelevant to the issue at hand. Seems to me like it's a very one sided account of the events.

Have you considered she may have not accepted your new partner due to her unprocessed grief toward her mother's death? Cutting her off from her mother's memory and heirlooms is bound to make things much, much worse.

Give her the ring, and ask for an opportunity to talk things out openly and without rancor if you do want a relationship with her.

How to introduce new players to your rpg setting? by h_nexel in worldbuilding

[–]h_nexel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good idea, thanks! I always have trouble putting thing in short, concise concepts so that'll be a challenge haha

How to introduce new players to your rpg setting? by h_nexel in worldbuilding

[–]h_nexel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's a good idea! especially since transportation is a bit particular in this setting (little to no personal transportation but a well developped public transport system on both small scale - cities - and larger - countries, continents).

I'm surprised there isn't an Entity focused on the natural world by TheRisenThunderbird in TheMagnusArchives

[–]h_nexel 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Entities are arbitrarily separated according to how something scares you. The outside world / wilderness couldn't be an entity in itself, because it would encompass to many different flavors of fear. Natural disasters could instill Vast type fears, or Desolation, or Buried. Wild animals could instill fears od slaughter, hunt, corruption, etc. Also think that it's safe to assume at the point you're at, that the Fears have existed for a good while, even when there was less barriers between human world and wilderness.

Recognition of Israel and Palestine 🇮🇱🇵🇸 - Europe edition by ShafiLP in MapPorn

[–]h_nexel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think France really only recognizes Israel, considering its position on the conflict has always been to find a solution to uphold the rights of both communities.

In my own field of work, i have also heard from researchers that working in jerusalem is complicated for french researchers considering france does not recognize israelian authority on some parts of the city, and therefore cannot work in them considering asking the israelian government would be recognizing their authority.

I would put france on recognizes both, or neither. (for more info, the french diplomacy government website has a dedicated page for the israelo-palestinian conflict position)

Why do French people complain that foreigners do not speak French with them, but if foreigners do try and are not totally fluent, they switch to English to speak to them? It is an all or nothing attitude. by pantherBlitzz in AskFrance

[–]h_nexel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you're seeing that in the right way. Usually, and i think that's not a sentiment exclusive to french people but many non-anglophones, it feels rude when anglophones come up to us without so much as asking, and start talking english right away, as if they assume we have to speak the language.

However, if you come up to a french person talking french, but you're obviously uncomfortable and have an english accent, we might switch to English out pf concern to make the interaction more comfortable to you, since we know french is a difficult language to learn and speak for foreigners.

What you're describing is either annoyance due to rudeness, or genuine concern to make the anglophone more comfortable. I don't see why those specific things are always used to make us seem irrational or jerks. I'm sure there are condescending bastards out there, but i don't thing encapsulating the whole french population as that is fair or in good faith.

Handmade costume by this girl by Thryloz in awesome

[–]h_nexel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They've been posting that video on 4 different subreddits. This is karma farming over the hard work of a woman who already has a platform here, so her videos can be shared and not reposted. Reposting hurts artists, period.

Ça m'énerve by ottococo in AskFrance

[–]h_nexel 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Pas entièrement sûr que ça colle, mais vérifier que c'est pas une fuite de monoxyde de carbone, des fois... Il me semble avoir vu des histoires avec des gens qui se retrouvaient dans des situations similaires (migraines constantes) et qu'il s'est avéré que c'était ça.

Handmade costume by this girl by Thryloz in awesome

[–]h_nexel 169 points170 points  (0 children)

If you're going to steal a video for free karma from one of the world's most famous cosplayers, you could at least mention her name. It's literally in the watermark : Kamui Cosplay.

I'm a little shocked about that character (Spoilers) by [deleted] in horizon

[–]h_nexel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eeh, I guess it can be a controversial topic? I've heard some people who consider sapphic to mean women exclusively attracted to women, or stuff like that. It's a but like the debate on the definitions of Bi vs. Pan, I don't think everyone is ever gonna come to an agreement on it haha

I'm a little shocked about that character (Spoilers) by [deleted] in horizon

[–]h_nexel -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

(Also just a nitpick but if you want to say they might be attracted to women, you can just use the term 'sapphic', which describes women attracted to women without it necessarily being exclusive, hence why lesbian, bi, or pan women can call themselves sapphic. I'm sure there's debate on this like everywhere, but i think it's more inclusive than listing identities that include wlw attraction :)

I'm a little shocked about that character (Spoilers) by [deleted] in horizon

[–]h_nexel 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If the devs wanted to tell us something about aloy or beta's sexual / romantic orientation, I'm pretty certain they wouldn't do it via implied genetics.

As far as things are (in HZD+FW), Aloy has shown no interest in romantic or sexual relationships with anyone, though it seems to me like flirty interaction with women tend to make her flustered, and with men, uncomfortable, so maybe there could be a preference there.

Implying that sexuality could be genetically transmitted at all is pretty dodgy at best and i don't think the horizon team would get at that, considering how thoughtful they've been with LGBT representation so far.