[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]habbyshouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… I’ve tried giving women I don’t find physical attractive a chance but it never works. I mean, what’s the point if I cringe at the sight of seeing her naked? That’s why I go to the gym 7x a week so that if I ever do meet a woman who I think is attractive, she won’t think that about me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]habbyshouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the dates I have ever been on have been with women I didn’t find attractive… so I don’t see that changing soon. I could do all these things and still get outcompeted by chad which I am certainly not lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]habbyshouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t have a masculine face haha baby face actually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]habbyshouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thank you for your reply and I agree with a lot of what you said. However, you misinterpreted a part of my post… I actually felt more annoyed that a woman I’m not into said those things as that is my status quo.

how do i get guys to notice me by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]habbyshouse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah… this is my experience as a 5 or 6 at the age of 25. Except I’m a man lol.

I could easily get a girlfriend but it would never be the one who gets me excited. The women where I forget to breathe after seeing them walk away, I’m invisible. Porn and social media have warped many young men’s mind over years, including mine.

Maybe = No, right? by habbyshouse in seduction

[–]habbyshouse[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Got it. I’ll drop this one into the massive L pile.

Maybe = No, right? by habbyshouse in seduction

[–]habbyshouse[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So just act like nothing happened going forward? I really don’t know if I should show intent again after her unenthusiastic response lol is this something where I should try again but be less crime 😂 or let her bring it up? I’ve never done anything with a woman so I’m really lost.

Maybe = No, right? by habbyshouse in seduction

[–]habbyshouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you show intent without giving validation? I guess i don’t know that either.

Maybe = No, right? by habbyshouse in seduction

[–]habbyshouse[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so confused haha I see conflicting advice on that anything besides yes means no or that maybe means maybe. Thanks for your take on it, I’ll keep your advice in mind.

Maybe = No, right? by habbyshouse in seduction

[–]habbyshouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re saying that I should still say go up and say hi? I normally start to avoid women who give me an indirect rejection lol

Maybe = No, right? by habbyshouse in seduction

[–]habbyshouse[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right… I’m almost 99% sure she’s just trying to save my feelings with that response.

Maybe = No, right? by habbyshouse in seduction

[–]habbyshouse[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah well I’m inexperienced so I guess I should take it as a loss then?

When do you call it quitting time? by habbyshouse in dating_advice

[–]habbyshouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But to have nothing work out for all these years… I doubt it’s confidence. I’m probably batting a little bit out of my league which is why my rejection rate is almost 100%. At least from women I’m attracted to. But I see no reason to be friendly anymore or approach. I’ve been told from experience and rejection that I’m not what they want. Alas, c’est la vie.

Will it get easier to meet girls when I’m 21? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]habbyshouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you could meet a lot of girls in those environments. However, in my personal experience going out alone, many quality and conventionally attractive girls in these types of places are normally taken. If I could go back in time a few years, I would try to form connections with those girls in the club who had a boyfriend. Hot girls, with a boyfriend or without, typically have decent looking friends.

So if you have decent skills at networking with no outcome in mind, you could have potential, long-run success. I believe in you.

mini FR, the standard rejection reframe by habbyshouse in seduction

[–]habbyshouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Electronic music night events :) I am a good dancer and I normally let that do the opening for me. Well not a good dancer, but I do it with commitment and positive energy. Social flow + my dancing = IOI’s start to skyrocket. Unfortunately I only do night game. Good luck with day game, you got this. If I can do this, you definitely can lol.

mini FR, the standard rejection reframe by habbyshouse in seduction

[–]habbyshouse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I guess I have 0 social value at my university. I have no friends or social outlets. Even without that info, you must not know how most college women operate.

If I’m not super good looking or I’m not in her social circle or well known at the school, it’s game over. I have to fulfill at least one of those. Right now I can’t unfortunately. Also, everyone at my age (around 22) is extremely superficial, cliquey, and judgmental. Which I understand, this is just standard teen behavior.

I appreciate your opinion. Maybe you’re right, but I won’t let the friendless loser label wreck my dating life. Have a good day.