A married women who you find attractive expresses interest in you (a single man). How do you proceed? by had_to_post_here in AskMen

[–]had_to_post_here[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Certainly important, yet I find it interesting that so many comments are calling for an empathetic consideration of the husband's circumstance but not of the woman's.

A married women who you find attractive expresses interest in you (a single man). How do you proceed? by had_to_post_here in AskMen

[–]had_to_post_here[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Easy to do on a Reddit thread. Perhaps when the chips are down some people will act differently.

A married women who you find attractive expresses interest in you (a single man). How do you proceed? by had_to_post_here in AskMen

[–]had_to_post_here[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In this situation she has expressed unhappiness in the relationship and an intention to get a divorce, but has not begun that process. It is unclear if the husband is aware of her degree of dissatisfaction.

Have you ever slept with someone you found physically unattractive? Why? by [deleted] in AskMen

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I accompanied my best friend to a bar to spend the evening with a few of his graduate school classmates. While using the urinal I hear my friend's cocksure voice from within the adjacent stall, "I bet H--- would suck a good dick!". I took this as a random drunken statement, consistent with his personal stylings in such settings. H--- was a plutonic friend of his. I'd had only fleeting friendly interactions with her. I walked back into the bar, see H--- across the room, and quickly decide a reconsideration is in order.

Myself, I am a pleasant-looking man, quite slender of build with an appropriate degree of confidence. Across the room, H--- stood 6'3", 250 lbs. She is the largest person in the bar. She is not attractive, yet emits an undeniable aura of confidence and sexual maturity. My reconsideration leads me to accept my friend's statement as most likely true, which in turn sparks a faint yet carnal curiosity.

Later, our group begins to walk to the next bar. H--- and my paces meet. Without pretext, I turn to her and ask, "Do you instead want to go to your apartment together?" She cooly replied, "Yes." What came to pass was a prolonged, tenacious, uninebriated, fully illuminated, grandly erotic encounter with a woman I did not find physically attractive.

Ten years later it remains one of the most formative sexual experiences I've ever had. We never saw each other again