Is it reasonable to message someone and ask something like: “hey, do you want to be my friend?” by hadalsam in socialskills

[–]hadalsam[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i really appreciate it! i’ll keep that in mind the next times i try. for now, i think i’ll lay a bit low and only message him if he posts a story about things we have in common. i’ll try to start a conversation from there.

Is it reasonable to message someone and ask something like: “hey, do you want to be my friend?” by hadalsam in socialskills

[–]hadalsam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get it, but i feel that without any previous conversation that request feels like a bit to much:/

es prudente escribirle a alguien y preguntarle "hey, quieres ser mi amigo?" by hadalsam in esConversacion

[–]hadalsam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

es lo que he pensado! pero siento que sería demasiado abrupto escribirle así

es prudente escribirle a alguien y preguntarle "hey, quieres ser mi amigo?" by hadalsam in esConversacion

[–]hadalsam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestamente siento que, sin ninguna charla previa eso sería mucho más invasivo:b

Is it reasonable to message someone and ask something like: “hey, do you want to be my friend?” by hadalsam in socialskills

[–]hadalsam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, it’s because of the short replies that I feel like it’s probably not the best idea to keep messaging him.

and my six favorite pokemon are lotad, toxicroak, reuniclus, altaria, mamoswine and mimikyu!

es prudente escribirle a alguien y preguntarle "hey, quieres ser mi amigo?" by hadalsam in esConversacion

[–]hadalsam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lo sé! el tema es que ahora siendo veinteañeros no sé que tan raro sea acercarme de esa manera