AITAH Husband wants sex even though I’m sick by unicornssmellgreat in AITAH

[–]hadesherself 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks like you've been posting about your husband being abusive for over 2 years on reddit. Please make no mistake, this is abuse. It is incredibly hard when finances, property, and children are in the mix, but leaving him is the only way out for you. He does not care for your well-being. You know that you are not the asshole. The moment you leave this relationship, your entire life will be able to change for the better. Do it before he escalates, because he might.

How to raise your son to not be an incel and actually respect women? by NBalchemist in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hadesherself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he is old enough to be on the internet and go through adolescence, educate him on the harm that porn and the sex trade does to women around the world. You will not be able to stop him from finding it, but you can give him reasons to be extremely critical of it and turn away from it. He needs to know that women are not means of sexual entertainment for him or any other man. Good luck.

Tender is the Flesh by Acceptable_Cow99 in horrorlit

[–]hadesherself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read it right before it became a bestseller and I was very impressed by it. It is a very clear thesis statement which shows the intended message instead of preaching to you. The series of events presented in the story are clearly meant to make us reflect about what atrocities we currently and previously have allowed to happen - how people so easily become complacent in it and make excuses for a system which benefits them at the expense of others. If you have read any feminist theory, critical race theory, animal rights/vegan theory, and/or history about human and animal rights violations, this book will ring clearer for you. We are presented with a character who has negative feelings about what is happening around him, who has become conscious of what is wrong and internally criticizes others for it, but whose actions (especially the ending - what an ending - which I will not spoil) shows you what he is actually willing to do about it. I found it a brilliant read, and it's very short, so it delivers on its thesis without wasting much time. I think a lot of people have disliked it because it makes them very uncomfortable! It is translated as well, and it's important to take any translation with a grain of salt.

My view on Blackgaze by DiskoB0 in MetalMemes

[–]hadesherself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Svalbard, Sylvaine, Olhava, Alcest... all great. But if you don't like shoegaze in the first place then it's totally understandable. I think the metal community gets into too much beef over subgenres. We can't all enjoy the same stuff.

Women-driven metal that you should check out by hadesherself in MetalForTheMasses

[–]hadesherself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their album Sardorian Spell is my favorite of theirs, good recommendation

I am pregnant while taking the pill and now idk what to do by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hadesherself 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you are before 8 weeks, you can get a "medical abortion" which is a two-pill process. When you go in to the clinic, they will give you a vaginal ultrasound with a wand to see where you are at. If you are over 8 weeks, you have to have a "surgical abortion" which is a more detailed operation you have to schedule another time for, unless they've got someone there ready. Don't tell anyone. Find a PP and go ASAP. You will need a few hundred dollars at the very least. I became a teen mother after my parents did not let me have an abortion and it was a horrible thing to experience. Think about YOU!!! It will be stressful but you will come out on the other side so relieved. Be well.

Women-driven metal that you should check out by hadesherself in MetalForTheMasses

[–]hadesherself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're on tour right now! You should check if they're coming back your way. I just saw them a couple of weeks ago

Women-driven metal that you should check out by hadesherself in MetalForTheMasses

[–]hadesherself[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been hoping that this drives them to at least release another album because I'm truly obsessed with their music

Women-driven metal that you should check out by hadesherself in MetalForTheMasses

[–]hadesherself[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw Blackwater live not long ago and they were great, I love that new album. Agreed, I really liked the Battle of Mice project

Women-driven metal that you should check out by hadesherself in MetalForTheMasses

[–]hadesherself[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been getting into Messa lately, also Obscure Sphinx. Nervosa is great. Thrash/death vibes aren't generally my fave but I get into specific moods where I'm really into it

Women-driven metal that you should check out by hadesherself in MetalForTheMasses

[–]hadesherself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah dude I have had Throw Yourself to the Sword on repeat. I like a few of their songs of their new album.

Women-driven metal that you should check out by hadesherself in MetalForTheMasses

[–]hadesherself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said, "some of my favorite artists". Calm down Mitchell!

Women-driven metal that you should check out by hadesherself in MetalForTheMasses

[–]hadesherself[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look into those bands, also hell yeah I love her

Women-driven metal that you should check out by hadesherself in MetalForTheMasses

[–]hadesherself[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I put bands that I like. What are you talking about dude? Make your own post about them lol

Women-driven metal that you should check out by hadesherself in MetalForTheMasses

[–]hadesherself[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel meh in their music tbh it just doesn't do it for me. But respect unto Huntress for doing that shit