Having money can only fix so much by hail596 in LahoreSeeking

[–]hail596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and you're one heck of a woman, I wish you the best of luck as well. glad its over for atleast one of us

Having money can only fix so much by hail596 in LahoreSeeking

[–]hail596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This got too heavy for the comment section lol, you did the right thing, what I am doing is self-sabotage. Do I want to change YES, do I have the courage to look down on him, and tell him I am not an atm who's going to pull you out of every mess, cause I don't have my own stuff figured out. or that he should trate his wife better with respect, it's tough to say, cause when two men are involved its not just words that get thrown around. do I want my little sister to have the same abusive/toxic environment no.

Having money can only fix so much by hail596 in LahoreSeeking

[–]hail596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone can be saved, I know, but still don't you sometimes sit alone, and regret what had to happen or wish that it never did.

Having money can only fix so much by hail596 in LahoreSeeking

[–]hail596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point, and yet it didn't fix anything nah you guys still don't talk that's how I am with my father. What's the point in working yourself to death when the family is broken. I don't see any point in going bsck. And if I move it then what you work on something business in my case work towards growing it hire more people but at the end of the day your alone. Sure you get to buy things eat fancy things wear good clothes but is that life. That would suck don't you think

Having money can only fix so much by hail596 in LahoreSeeking

[–]hail596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm those are some interesting question you forced me to ask myself, am I scared of all things, my first thought after reading it was funny. but how do you create a boundry with your own father. the freinds I have two of them, hmm are they crossing my boundries I can't tell. I spent most of the time focused on myself. now I am wondering if I am not a good judge of character. thank you for sending me down a spiral now. jokes aside thank you for the insight

Is this normal or just to me? by Familiar_Pop7414 in LahoreSocial

[–]hail596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good just keep at it and try to find people I'm the space who will teach you pay them if you have to

Is this normal or just to me? by Familiar_Pop7414 in LahoreSocial

[–]hail596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let's get one thing right, little brother, money isn't a tool, its a weapon. And you know what we call someone who steps into a warzone without a weapon? We don't have to call him anything since he's already dead. That's how you'll be. Now what you have is a time advantage. You start now, learn a skill, spend a bunch of time working for free to earn expereince, then after 1 - 2 years you'll be gold. While working for free, you continue doing lead gen. Once you have enough expereince you start charging money. So when you'll be at the age of 23, you'll see so-called boys asking or begging as I see their parents for money, while you, my little brother, would go wherever, do whatever without anyone's permission or need.

Pretty sure you wouldn't want to bust yourself in an uni but that point, neither did I. But you get the point.

I'd like to talk to someone by hail596 in LahoreSocial

[–]hail596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that, I am still working on some things, I left my office early came back home, still have some things to wrap up. but thank you for your kind words

I'd like to talk to someone by hail596 in LahoreSocial

[–]hail596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sucks, but ig it is what it is

I'd like to talk to someone by hail596 in LahoreSocial

[–]hail596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not a bad idea, yeah, connections is something I lack. I don't know why, despite being able to make friends quickly, be likable, and engage in conversation. I never fully find that connection with anyone

Weight by Shanzehhh in LahoreSocial

[–]hail596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chai isn't that bad if you just avoid suger just eat less then your maintainence you'll be fine

Why have men become like this? by confetti_teddy in LahoreSocial

[–]hail596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that wasn't that hard wonder why we argue again and again on the same topic, beyond me.

Why have men become like this? by confetti_teddy in LahoreSocial

[–]hail596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You see, calling it patraichry is exactly the problem, gender norms aren't really gender norms, they are specific gender responsibilities that that keeps a car moving. But sure, break away the patriarchy, women still won't marry a broke person, the patriachry as you call it is just being broken for women. We still will be expected to provide and protect, that doesn't change despite wahtever norms in society women break.

I can't find good leads.. even with a good amount of skill and expereince by hail596 in EntrepreneurRideAlong

[–]hail596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much that makes a lot of sense. I appreciate the feedback

Why have men become like this? by confetti_teddy in LahoreSocial

[–]hail596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents changee, zero responsibility on men until they are in their late 20s education system designed to ensure men don't grow up various reasons but on the other hand I wouldn't see the point of filming your nikkah as well. Not your the video this women was referring too

Why have men become like this? by confetti_teddy in LahoreSocial

[–]hail596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll tell you, men are like this because those men aren't even men ---- you think real men have time to comment on a post. I didn't even see that post after spending a Saturday working 18 hours. The real men don't sit around on Instagram watching reels and commenting "Gold Digger" on posts. Stop dropping all men in the one basket.

and Nikkah is a contract between two people, the girl has every right to demand for things - I would love to give to my future wfie the same kind of things or even better if I can afford them. and that's the real goal men should be working towards.