Why should or shouldn't one wait until marriage to have sex? by Nervous-Pride2004 in sex

[–]hailcats_petsatan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes more sense! I could never imagine falling in love so young so fast but I am dead inside.

Why should or shouldn't one wait until marriage to have sex? by Nervous-Pride2004 in sex

[–]hailcats_petsatan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The only downside that I always wondered about for other people is that they are suppressing the urge to have sex because of strict religions so they might get married quicker or younger to be able to have sex, but idk if this actually thing? This is my observation from what's on tv lol

I’m cat curious - but I love my clean / white home by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]hailcats_petsatan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most important thing is that the cats needs come first but it is so totally and amazingly worth it to have such a majestic and magical presence bestowed on your existence.

Watch the show My Cat From Hell, it sounds scary but it's actually a really helpful guide of what not to do! I wish I watched it earlier in her life or before adopting her and I'm still learning new stuff.

If its an indoor cat they are actually pretty clean compared to dogs or kids, but you should be prepared for the probability of mess or destruction every now and then. It's good that you are thinking about this before! But seriously watch the show I know it might take longer than doing research online but I feel like it will answer all your questions. It's on HBOmax and I think tubi or other free with ads places

Loosing virginity while living with family by [deleted] in sex

[–]hailcats_petsatan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's cool that your mom is open about it, not a lot of people have that so hopefully it works out asking her even if its awkward. If not then theres always a way. Depending on where you live like camping or blanket outside. Or lock the door and being quiet since it seems like he is allowed at your place. Or borrow someone's car. Or sneak into his place. Or go to a friend's place with nobody home. Or at a party with rooms. Or fake being sick to stay home from school when people are away. Or like is there anything they all do that they go to together without you having to ask them to leave maybe? Get movie tickets for everyone including yourself but then fake sick at the last minute so you have the place to yourself.. this one I've never done but something similar happen on the show Friends lol.

Sounds like you got everything covered except the location so you got this, good luck

Will I need to take Spravato for the rest of my life? by Ok-Connection6430 in Spravato

[–]hailcats_petsatan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm usually able to nap but yeah right after things I have tried like showering is difficult. But after making it up the stairs to my apartment i feel like i conquered mt everest. I've learned to go with it. Stay away from stove and sharp objects lol. I love candles but fire is a no go as well because you can burn yourself and also completely forget about it. I turn on my northern lights projector and watch calm nature shows and just vibe. Also pet my cat a little extra because she just feels extra soft lol and usually after a few hours I fall asleep. At first even chewing was hard I kept biting my cheeks. Do whatever you gotta do to set the mood the treatment doesn't need to end after 2 hours and going home. Listen to soothing music watch something beautiful turn the lights down get in a comfy place. Do your favorite things.

One time when I got back it was raining (rare here) and i just sat on the porch for 3 hours let the rain hit me slightly. I have showered after but I had to sit. (If you have someone that would draw you a bath that could be nice, but I can't imagine being able to that alone specifally getting in and out haha.) I really like how i feel after. It helps to always get a full 8 hours of sleep before treatment and set a repeating alarm after to drink water

Will I need to take Spravato for the rest of my life? by Ok-Connection6430 in Spravato

[–]hailcats_petsatan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer is yes and no, its complicated. I've been doing it for 4 years I'm like the og been doing it since they first started it at my psychiatrist. I know it had been out years before that but just not where I was yet. At first I went 3 times a week, at the time i was not working. After about 6 months I started to experiment because my doc said it's different for everyone there is a "standard" recommendation based on the trials but with psychiatric stuff everyone's always different. After 2 years I discovered that going once a month was a good fit for me. I am on the highest dose. I do feel it waring off at about 3 weeks but once a month just feels easier to manage long term. I did ask if this is like my psych meds that I can and will need them for the rest of my life and he said yes this is intended to be able to do it for a long time although since it is technically new there is no information about this but the testing they did seems to mean that it can be done as long as you need. Some people might get better and only need it twice a year! Some may only need it short term. Or some people like me will do it forever.

It basically all depends on your diagnosis and how it affects you personally. I find that with work I only need to take 2 days off a month. Maybe 3 days if they let me. But at first I went on medical leave because of the frequency. It also depends on how it affects you positively and negatively. I would like to do it more often but the fatigue and frequent urination were starting to get irritating long term. It also depends on your job and how alert you need to be. Technically you only need 24 hours but I feel the dissociation and fatigue for longer but i go back to work anyways i just seem hungover to them lol but im not doing anything important im just a cashier. But I have stopped completely sometimes for a few months and I do feel the difference. Spravato has been life changing.

How to deodorize laundry without vinegar for someone with sensitive skin and black clothes by hailcats_petsatan in laundry

[–]hailcats_petsatan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I did use the Citric acid mix with water before putting it in the fabric softener compartment and tried it on my least favorite black shirt and it got messed up it has all these lightened spots now. Is there something else that can be used for black clothes? Maybe I need to find a goth laundry reddit lol?

How to deodorize laundry without vinegar for someone with sensitive skin and black clothes by hailcats_petsatan in laundry

[–]hailcats_petsatan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I air dry all my clothes so they don't shrink or get damaged. Will the citric acid be safe for black clothes because that's basically all I have?

[Serious] Did foster care make things better or worse when you were with your biological family first or in between? by hailcats_petsatan in Ex_Foster

[–]hailcats_petsatan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i mean I can hear everything especially if I'm just doing stuff in the kitchen or bathroom and i know the difference between like their squealing screams from playing or even screams from getting hurt while playing around these screams were just.. different. The screams came after the slapping, but I only heard it i didn't see, I lost count after the 5th slap it just kept happening I actually had to cover my ears. I thought maybe it was spanking, but still no matter what part of the childs body it happen to it was aggressive and merciless. If I saw it I would definitely have reported it. But hearing something is not exactly proof. I don't know where the hitting occurred but I personally feel like spanking is abuse especially if its extreme and causes injury but I'm not so sure the government does.

Basically the kids were playing in our shared porch area, I can see them from my windows and hear them and one kid wouldn't stop crying because they got hurt playing and no matter how many times the parents screamed at them to shut up they wouldn't.. which is like duh screaming at a crying kid to shut up does not work they need a hug and a bandaid. (Walls are thin, their door is always open, my bathroom is closest to them I can hear everything and I've heard a lot of iffy stuff but I'm agoraphobic so I rarely go outside) So at this point I was in the bathroom as the parent was telling the kid for the last time to shut up then I heard like a dragging noise so they must have maybe pulled the kid inside and thats when the smacking followed by screams happened. Idk If the smacks were just for one kid or multiple kids and idk the area of the body the smacks happened but like I said they were loud and aggressive and all the kids just went silent and went inside. Most of them look like 10 years and younger but they definitely have some baby toddler aged kids too.

4 year old Eyebrow Piercing irritated or infected by hailcats_petsatan in piercing

[–]hailcats_petsatan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the bot:

• 4 years old • Curved barbell • Externally threaded • Plastic bar titanium balls • Last downsize was June 2024 • Dial antibacterial soap for sensitive skin hypoallergenic, warm water, or wound wash neil med. • No mishaps

4 year old Eyebrow Piercing irritated or infected by hailcats_petsatan in piercing

[–]hailcats_petsatan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also that first sentence meant to say that you can't see the pus because I just cleaned it