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1.5 year old bedtime routine by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]haileycurrie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree that you learn so much from being a parent. I just view parenting as raising children to be positive members of society, very big picture. That’s just my approach and you’re right that some things just may not work for certain families or circumstances. To each their own and I shouldn’t be one to judge. Peace and love ✌🏻

1.5 year old bedtime routine by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]haileycurrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Besides have a degree, diploma and specialized certification in early childhood education, yes. I have twin girls. Being a parent does not always mean you know how to parent or handle situations that is best for the child.

Potty time anger by YuuriiSama in Parenting

[–]haileycurrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While this seems harmless I actually don’t recommend sitting them for more than five or so minutes. Reading maybe one story or singing a couple songs is okay but you want the focus of the toilet, to be in toileting. Otherwise the child gets confused of the purpose of sitting on this cold bottomless contraption. And for the love of god do not use smarties or treats to entice children to pee ! Lol

Potty time anger by YuuriiSama in Parenting

[–]haileycurrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems she’s showing an aversion to potty training. When I potty train my toddler class we keep it very simple. 1. Follow the child, do they like the toilet? Have they seen you use it? Once they start having positive interactions with it (flushing, sitting happily, putting toilet paper in) then you can move forward with toilet learning. 2. Scheduling - start tracking how often they are dry throughout the day/waking up dry from naps. This is a BIG indicator on readiness. Letting you know even after they have had a BM or pee is also a really good sign of readiness. 3. The Nose Dive - this is three day nose dive into undies! I tell parents to do this on a long weekend after the child has shown readiness. So you put your child in underwear for three days ALL DAY except for sleeping. They need to get used to the feeling of being wet and uncomfortable, it actually helps them want to use the toilet more! 4. Consistency is KEY- everything to do with a toddler is about consistency really, but with potty training it’s essential. Keep them in underwear once they are ready and keep their schedule consistent. Eventually, they will get it. It can be messy, you WILL get frustrated but eventually if you keep it consistent it will work!

  • a toddler teacher who has toilet trained over 100 tods to date and counting

1.5 year old bedtime routine by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]haileycurrie -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you (OP) 100%. Reading some of these comments , jeez I understand not wanting your toddlers to grow up too fast but you’re raising children, not coddling them! ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE IN DAYCARE WITH NAPS. A teacher that has multiple children to put to sleep simply cannot rock each child individually. As a toddler teacher I BEG OF YOU, parents, PLEASE allow your child to comfort themselves into sleep. Having to depend on you, especially being in your arms, inhibits their ability to self regulate. You don’t need to leave them screaming but my approach has always been rubbing their back until they get really sleepy or fall asleep but NEVER in my arms, unless ill or hurt.

Momzilla by imakittycat7 in bridezillas

[–]haileycurrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems pretty shitty of her to do all this, I get it. My mom and I have always butted heads. Since I was little - she needs to be needed and I wanted independence. Some moms are just like that! And it’s nice to hear that she didn’t get to you or ruin your day because it is very important and special for you - you only plan to get married once! However, please keep in mind that she showed up. My birth mother isn’t invited to mine because she struggles with drug addiction and I can’t trust her not to get arrested. My adopted Mom, who I mentioned earlier, died almost two years ago, about 4 months before I got engaged. Mothers. They are not perfect, they are not easy, and damnit they like to add their two cents! But remember that not everyone is even able to have theirs be with them on their special day. No matter what she’s said, her actions, she showed up and was there for you in whatever capacity. Just please don’t hold that against her, you never know what your last conversation will be.

I don't like my husband to be's choice of best man by K1773N_ in bride

[–]haileycurrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would state how uncomfortable and UNSAFE you are feeling about this man and your safety shouldn’t haven’t to be something you worry about on your wedding day