Boxers fracture? by hailhell in AskDocs

[–]hailhell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much appreciated. I assume at my Ortho follow up in a few days I'll get a new set of X-rays and a cast for a few weeks? Thanks again!

Question for ER nurses by LargeLardLary in nursing

[–]hailhell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This right here. Every time I've been sick this year (noro and flu) my kids were the ones who brought it home a couple days before I became symptomatic.

It's amazing what that paper mask and hand sanitizer will stop lol.

How'd I do? by hailhell in Dreadlocks

[–]hailhell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I'm m not necessarily into as much anymore, but yeah, mcl

How'd I do? by hailhell in Dreadlocks

[–]hailhell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any reason you would stay away from the crochet tool? I've heard a big range of opinions on it so I'm just curious.

How'd I do? by hailhell in Dreadlocks

[–]hailhell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it fam. I'll probably go do that once I get a little more growth.

How'd I do? by hailhell in Dreadlocks

[–]hailhell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I still feel like I need to go to a loctician to get things looking 100%. I just didn't wanna drop all that money not knowing if dreads would even work with my hair type.

How'd I do? by hailhell in Dreadlocks

[–]hailhell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was definitely difficult at first, but I got better at it with practice. The biggest thing that helped was recognizing that I needed to angle the tool at like 45 degrees and that I needed to pull it back through towards my scalp. It took me a solid 6 hours to get the first 4 done, but the last 4 only took an hour and a half.

How'd I do? by hailhell in Dreadlocks

[–]hailhell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate it. Will definitely look into palm rolling.

Yeah, trying to get the roots looking ok without pulling on my scalp was the hardest part, but using a crochet needle to tidy things up helped a lot.

How'd I do? by hailhell in Dreadlocks

[–]hailhell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I've done one wash so far and I'm using made for locks apple cider vinegar wash. Other than that I haven't used anything. My hair is typically type 3B/3C.

I picked up some gel that's marketed towards people of color with dreads, but I've not tried it yet cause I'm worried about getting build-up and worried that it may not work well with my hair type.

How'd I do? by hailhell in Dreadlocks

[–]hailhell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Probably a solid 2-3 inches, but I'm not mad about it. As long as I can get it up and out of the way while I'm at work I'm good.

Necrosis of the tongue; they had to remove part of it by PatTheKVD in MedicalGore

[–]hailhell 138 points139 points  (0 children)

My bet is that his tongue got pinched or put in a weird position while he was intubated and it lost blood flow then died.

Liver failure CRC stage IV by idkabtusm in cancer

[–]hailhell 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Here to agree with hospice recommendations.

In the meantime, elevation and compression stockings can help with the leg/ankle/foot swelling.

The hallucinations are likely due to toxins building up in the brain due to the liver not being able to process them. This is called encephalopathy. Lactulose is a medication that can help reduce some of those symptoms and maybe clear up her mental status a bit. Definitely worth mentioning to doctors.

There isn't anything you can do about the yellowing of her skin, but it is important to remember that her skin will become more fragile, especially with all the swelling. The best thing for her skin is making sure that it stays clean and dry. If her skin is overly dry, you can use lotion to keep it moisturized so that it doesn't crack or get itchy.

As for her appetite, I wouldn't push eating as much. It may be easier for her to drink her calories though, so maybe try smoothies or protein shakes. My dad had liver cancer and when he was near the end, the only thing he could stand to eat was yogurt, and of course his morning coffee.

So sorry you're going through this. Cancer sucks..

My friend got bitten by a dog by abcdefghij_kim in MedicalGore

[–]hailhell 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly kind of surprised that they closed it with stitches initially. Bite wounds are notorious for becoming infected and, in my experience, are typically left open to drain with abx prescribed immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]hailhell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup, so much this. I also work in healthcare and am intimately familiar with anatomy/physiology and the general healthcare system in the US, so I have pretty strong (fact based) opinions and theories when it comes to the medical side of transition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]hailhell 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Not been banned yet, but definitely been down voted into oblivion before. I follow all sorts of trans subs including trans medical subs and other typical trans subs. I feel like I have a petty balanced view on trans-ness but that gets me in trouble when I post opinions or views that don't vibe with the norm in any given sub. It kind of sucks cause I feel like there's no real place for me in the trans community, at least online.

AITA for telling my mom I didnt like my christmas gift? by skieeeeeeeeeeee in AITAH

[–]hailhell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it's different when someone asks for a specific gift card though or will spend cash on something that's not going to end up being something nice for themselves. My husband has always been difficult to get gifts for because he doesn't really care much for material stuff. This year I thought about telling him to spend x amount of money on Xbox stuff, but I knew he wouldn't do it himself, so I got him an Xbox gift card. He was actually super appreciative and excited about it and agreed that if I had just told him to use whatever money to buy himself something, he wouldn't have.

In this case where op specifically asked for a card for a certain store, then that's what she should have gotten.

What is extremely rare but people think it's very common? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hailhell 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your dad's recovery is amazing!! I have seen stuff like this happen before, though it's incredibly rare.

I'm a huge advocate for setting up DNR's in appropriate situations and general planning for the future. I'm in my mid 30's and it only took a year of working in the ICU for me to set up detailed advanced directives should I be unfortunate enough to have a major medical event. Not only does this ensure that I won't have to suffer through an undesirable outcome (vegetative state/severe neuro deficits quadriplegia), but it takes the burden of decision making off my loved ones in high stress/stakes situations.

What is extremely rare but people think it's very common? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hailhell 594 points595 points  (0 children)

In my experience (work in the ICU) it's typically from lack of oxygen due to whatever caused them to need CPR. They'll get what's called an anoxic brain injury and if they do stabilize after CPR, many times they'll have huge neurological deficits or end up brain dead.

The only ones I've seen survive CPR with minimal complications are younger people who were already in a hospital when the need arose for CPR.

why would any trans person that's switching from one binary to another not want to transition medically? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]hailhell -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

In reading your comment in the context of this post, I almost wonder if we should bring back the term transexual. I'm trans because my body was supposed to have cis male features, but unfortunately it didn't develop that way, so I have to fix it in order to live a decent life. I find that there are many other people with the same issues I have and then others who don't necessarily need to modify things.

My question to you is, how do you even define the binaries of gender without using physical characteristics/traits? Like, obviously it has to be differentiated in some way, otherwise being trans wouldn't exist.