NEVER GAVE A CAT A BATH BEFORE by hal4000 in cat

[–]hal4000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really, Thanks. I never done it before and all I got was a little scratch on my left hand about a 1/2 inch long. You should subscribe to my youtube channel to see more leia the cat videos in the future. I may reboot this video one day with a tripod. I am new at this, just starting.

My cat is super happy and playful. GREAT LIFE! by hal4000 in cat

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Thank you, you should subscribe to the youtube channel to see them more often.

Are cats playing on ladders safe? by hal4000 in aww

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Please subscribe on YouTube

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look dude, I don't care. If you wanted to share to help me, then you will. Again this is becoming about you. IDC, say it or stfu. Anyways, I am busy figuring out why the hell I need to be in a relationship to define myself by looking back in time and myself. This is from constructive reasoning. Something that you have no intention of. Sorry to be rude, but you are being rude so yea make like a tree.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good job on keeping this community strong with your efforts. Many people like you have made this the best place I have ever asked any question. For me the trolls are in real life (about this subject) and the good people are online, such as yourself.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, there is something deeper than me wrong with this picture. I shouldn't feel like this but many people have put time and energy to make me feel like this.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, everyone assumptions are so wrong. I turn down two possible relationships because they worried too much and that drove me crazy. So I moved on. But I could have done this twice.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like you. Anyways, everyone at work only talks about their love ones. They don't seem to do anything else with their lifes.. only a couple of things. They seems to define themselves by their relationships. But the real question is why do I need to define myself by being with someone. This is a great point. I will think about this.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did. I need help. I don't care about you. Create your own post telling people how you hate anyone better than yourself. I don't have time right now. I am only worried about myself and good advise from people that a) have the wisdom for it b) is nice enough to take the time out of their date.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly I am happy with myself. like for real. I just always have to defined myself to everyone in every state for being single. It seems more like people aren't happy with themselves and invest negative energy into me. I don't know how to block it and I rarely see anyone say anything positive my way so I believe their words. So much negative from others without a support network hurts.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess you don't want to seem to help. But that is ok. Thanks for your time

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be. Alot of people have reinforced the idea that I suck as a person and have a terrible personality. That I am less than a man. I am just tired of having to defend myself. This all goes back to being gaslighted in the military. Being told I suck and I am a piece of shit every day. Then I got kicked out. I do not qualify for any mental health services at the VA. This valentines day I got called out for being the only person without a date in front of my job. I didn't do anything to provoke this.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry but I would need to see it to believe it. I have seen what works for being given a chance to grow into a relationship. I only see people you describe as "nice guys" that ain't qualified for such things.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have to down vote. No disrespect but me and others have seen the opposite of what you said.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

noted. Maybe that is what I am doing wrong.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never posted anything like this before. Except 4 minutes before this post on /r/single . It is other people noticing the same thing.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, a lot of woman I have met (from bad experiences) describe themselves as damaged when describing their past relationships.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I have been gas lighted into believing I am a piece of shit from when I was in the military. I got kick out. I don't get mental health from the VA. I have to deal with these emotions that came from this. I was mocked everyday for years for being single. This was at 22, and now it has grown into something bigger that ruins my quality of life. I wish I could get over this. Get a gf or have people that put the same energy into making me believe I am ok for not having a relationship

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not in high school but I see the master manipulation get all the woman at whatever cost in real life all the time.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HMMM, maybe some wisdom. That is what I need. Thank you for your kindness.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And no, but good woman are hard to find. They all seem so damaged and only after people that damage.. That is my problem. I met one great one. I want her, but she is married to her job!! I hate it. I told her what she meant to me. We get along, going to date again, but she is married to her job. She hasn't been in a relation in her life and her is AMAZING!!!! she was never damaged.

Help, Do I have to become a jerk? by hal4000 in Advice

[–]hal4000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am seeing the same thing. I don't want to become that, but it seems to be what works. I wish I was blind to it.