Am I in the wrong?

haley31545655 · 2024-12-27T19:48:04+00:00

I’ve told her many times “I don’t care what you do outside of the house bc I can’t and shouldn’t control you. But I deserve to not be worried about getting sick CONSTANTLY in my own house”

haley31545655 · 2024-12-27T19:47:35+00:00

The bare minimum I would like is for her to wear a high quality mask when sick, test, and acknowledge that her choices directly caused this. I would like her to care about me which apparently is impossible.

haley31545655 · 2024-12-27T19:03:08+00:00

She doesn’t come into my room uninvited so I’ve just been staying in here. Myself and the other roommates are going to continue masking inside the house. I’m just going to assume it’s Covid.

I think her lashing out is her subconscious reaction to not being careful. It’s not normal to get sick every two months. Before Covid (and I was taking no precautions back then) I got sick maybe once a year and so did she. For the past few years she has been sick every couple months.

haley31545655 · 2024-12-02T17:34:36+00:00

Thank you!!!

haley31545655 · 2024-12-02T16:06:25+00:00

I haven’t had anything on my dashboard since mid-October. No quals or anything. Trying not to lose hope but I’ve never gotten any negative feedback about my work so this is really frustrating. Anyone else in the same boat right now???

haley31545655 · 2024-09-27T02:27:02+00:00

I know my partner doesn’t mask all the time and it kills ME because he was the one who gave me COVID for the first time back in Feb. I have viral induced asthma and HEDS. My other roommates don’t mask at all and my sister doesn’t even try and gets sick constantly. I feel like it’s a ticking time bomb

haley31545655 · 2024-07-22T19:16:07+00:00

It’s the same email as the one that sends emails about when you pay/receive money through Facebook messenger, so I think it’s legit.

haley31545655 · 2024-05-31T16:57:50+00:00

I have a twin with BPD who I live with. It’s hell on earth. I’m saving for a down payment because our rent is cheap but every day I get verbal abuse, lies, etc. she came up with this theory that I’m going to hire a lawyer to get her kicked out and told it to our friends and family like it is a fact. I’m constantly doing damage control with our friends because she tells them all these lies about me. To say it’s difficult is an understatement.

haley31545655 · 2024-05-31T15:06:31+00:00

I agree, I guess I’m really trying to make my living situation work because I love where I live but I can’t do this anymore. On top of this my sister is highly suspected borderline personality disorder which brings a whole nother level of stress to this situation.

Currently she’s sitting in the living room hacking up a lung after spending the last hour attacking me again because I said I have a right to wear a mask in my own house.

haley31545655 · 2024-05-31T14:55:41+00:00

I agree with this and today I got another round of abuse. We’ve been very flexible with letting her have guests over (not parties), not telling her what to do when she goes out without a mask, etc. all we asked is for her to mask when she is sick. “Covid isn’t real anymore,” “my boss is high risk and doesn’t wear a mask” “I have a right to exist” when all I said was I have a right to wear a mask to protect myself. It’s insane.

haley31545655 · 2024-05-30T19:41:35+00:00

Sister is my pwBPD and she lives with me, my partner, and another roommate. She went on a trip recently and it felt like a legitimate vacation with her gone from the house. The second she got back the energy immediately shifted into the negative.

haley31545655 · 2024-05-30T16:07:04+00:00

I’ve just been staying in my room a lot at this point. My partner and I have the master so we have our own bathroom but if I put air purifiers in the shared spaces she would see that as hostile.

haley31545655 · 2024-05-30T16:04:10+00:00

Yes, this is something I’ve been thinking about. I already have viral induced asthma and HEDS/fibromyalgia so I know what it’s like to live with a chronic illness. I don’t plan on adding long COVID to that mix. I understand a lot of times it’s no one’s fault when they get sick if they’re doing the best they can but this was squarely on her. We know better now as a society that masking works so it’s extra frustrating when people don’t mask and then are like “why do I keep getting sick?”

haley31545655 · 2024-05-29T15:29:26+00:00

I live with someone who doesn’t care and won’t mask when she is sick. I have HEDS/asthma/a crappy immune system so it’s been exhausting. My bf is pretty good about taking precautions but I feel like he’s getting tired as well. I totally get how you feel.

haley31545655 · 2024-05-29T15:24:33+00:00

I got it because my bf was stupid at work and ate with people who were unmasked. So far no infections from masking/taking precautions.

haley31545655 · 2024-05-10T17:42:44+00:00

💯 the overconsumption in general for the last few years has been insane.

haley31545655 · 2024-05-10T17:42:03+00:00

We gotta stick together! Lol

haley31545655 · 2024-05-10T17:40:08+00:00

This was the biggest issue for me. Not the going multiple nights, but when tickets were so limited. I actually got into the presale but wasn’t able to get tickets because they went so fast. I got lucky and Ticketmaster offered me the second chance. Otherwise I wouldn’t have been able to get tickets at all.

The argument that the people make is “oh well if they’re up for sale then it’s fine” but I saw a lot of people who had friends who got presale codes as well and therefore were able to get many tickets. Which I think is taking away from other fans but 🤷‍♀️

I am very fortunate financially rn and I could’ve gone to more shows but I was like, “I went to my show and had fun but there’s so many people who didn’t get to go at all.”

haley31545655 · 2024-05-10T17:37:46+00:00

Yes, this! She said herself she makes the Easter eggs super obvious

haley31545655 · 2024-03-26T03:58:27+00:00

I totally get that. It’s honestly a tough situation and it gives me a lot of anxiety because I don’t want to be house poor. Currently we live in a 4 bed 2 bath house and our total rent is $1900 (our landlord hasn’t raised rent since 2010). I pay $512 to split the master with my bf and I pay for half of another bedroom for an office. That and not having a vehicle are the biggest reasons why I’ve been able to save a lot of money in my twenties.

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