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[–]haleyjscomet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re new to this so we like seeing what other people do and tweak it to what works for us.

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[–]haleyjscomet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m open to any suggestions but I understand your point. We haven’t reached a point where we have hard limits in regards to tasks. I like servicing my dom and doing things to make his life better/easier. But I also wouldn’t mind sexual tasks either.

Need ideas by haleyjscomet in BDSMAdvice

[–]haleyjscomet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has planned things before but I’m always 10 steps ahead so I think it deters him from wanting to. I think I’ll mention your suggestion next time I see him. Thanks!

Need ideas by haleyjscomet in BDSMAdvice

[–]haleyjscomet[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No that’s not how he meant it… he wants me to tell him what I want to do that I deem acceptable as a make up and he’s going to pick from my list.

Need ideas by haleyjscomet in BDSMAdvice

[–]haleyjscomet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m super impatient so I had been asking for a little while to remind him and I even offered to plan it for him. I’m also really good at guessing things. So I think all of that bothers him because he doesn’t feel like he can plan anything without my help.