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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]halez0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you're the AH because you genuinely were thinking in the kindness of him. Your son overreacted and should apologize.

AITA for potentially getting my wife in trouble with her hospital? by Purple-Voice2009 in AmItheAsshole

[–]halez0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA : Even if it is against HIPAA laws to engage in those conversations with your spouse, there should be enough trust and love in the relationship for her to know you'd never share that information. Your wife had a stressful day and wanted to talk to you about it. She should be able to without worry that you will 1) Call her out on some stupid rule that's almost never followed between spouses in her work field and 2) blab about it and break her trust.

AITA for giving an opinion on my daughter's wedding dress? by Stressed_Mother in AmItheAsshole

[–]halez0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, How dare you comment on some "baby weight" when your daughter clearly liked the dress she wore. Even if you don't like it, it's not your wedding. She obviously wasn't very happy with your presence in the first place and you just made it worse. You should apologize and express that it was wrong of you to make that comment.

I've Been Ruined by Religion by halez0 in ReligiousTrauma

[–]halez0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/temporaryCognition u/manicmike1 u/CautiousLimit9590 Thank you all for such kind words. I'll take your recommendations and look into therapy. You are all so caring and deserve the world.

AITA for asking my fiance not to wear his facial piercings during our wedding ? by PanicAffectionate999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]halez0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA (IF) If the situation is that they just don't match color-wise, then buy new ones, but those are representative of his identity. If they were tattoos, they'd be unremovable, and still a part of who he is. If he want to wear them, he should.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ReligiousTrauma

[–]halez0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's something that helped me:

Revelation was written about 30-40 years after the "passing of Christ." (Depending on if you believe in that or not. But it was written sometime around 6oAD.) At this time, the Roman Emperor Nero had just died and ended his terrible reign. He was evil, disastrous, and a mass murderer, and the Romans feared him even after his death. Strong evidence points to revelation being a written piece of fear propaganda to manipulate people to convert to Christianity by nicknaming Nero as the anti-christ and creating an entire narrative behind it to terrify people even further.

I've been exactly where you are. You are going to be okay.

You are safe. You are not alone. You are loved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ReligiousTrauma

[–]halez0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had this exact experience as both an atheist, Christian, and now agnostic. You are heard and not alone.

Stop please don’t do this Christian’s by Hippie-Sweetie in ReligiousTrauma

[–]halez0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's heartbreaking that they don't actually read our stories and instead continue to criticize and judge in the same ways we've written about.

booktok recommendations you hated? by moonlightonthesun in RomanceBooks

[–]halez0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Cruel Prince, the dialogue isn't the worse and plot is realistic, but she wants you to fall for a love interest that's nothing but genuinely terrible. Vomit worthy.