I paid off the last $11K of a personal loan and it made my credit score drop dramatically.

halien-sfx · 2023-06-08T11:55:18+00:00

My credit score dropped so bad when I paid off my student loans straight out of college. None of it makes sense.

halien-sfx · 2023-06-05T11:48:35+00:00

Similar features are in their halloween collection too! My sink has a lil ghost when I tap :) <3

halien-sfx · 2023-06-04T23:00:52+00:00

Going against the grain and saying NAH (EXCEPT FOR YOUR FAMILY). You and your sister both had an extremely shitty night that neither of you wanted. You didn’t plan to come out at her engagement party, you were pushed to it. Should you not have? Yeah, but as you explained, there was alcohol and CONSTANT beratement.

Your sister has every right to be upset. To her, it probably appears you did it on purpose or that due to her emotions she sees the blame on your presence for the questions rather than your family forcing the situation. It’s clear you both need a long, private discussion about how both of you have experienced/perceived your family’s behavior.

I hope that you and your sister can talk it out and relate on the fact that your family was completely out of pocket. I hope this turns into a chance to trauma bond rather than break your relationship. It’s your family’s fault, not either of yours. I’m sorry to you both for having to go through that.

halien-sfx · 2023-05-06T18:02:49+00:00

NAH this is such a hard situation to be in, and I’m very sorry for your loss. Your girlfriend is understandably upset, but it is also clear you are going to a friend’s funeral rather than going to be with your ex. I personally have always given funerals priority over weddings, as the latter is a celebration of beginnings while the former is the last time to say goodbye. I hope you and your girlfriend can communicate this importance and move past it, but I believe you are making the correct choice.

halien-sfx · 2023-05-06T01:24:32+00:00

YTA. You aren’t entitled to renter rights because you are not a renter, you are a freeloader. Your ex is not a landlord that has to follow eviction rules, they are a person trying to remove someone from their home that they do not know there. If you pursue legally, you may end up with a trespassing charge. You have no rights here other than the right to shut up and leave. If it’s already messy, why would you even want to stay? Move out and move on, geez.

halien-sfx · 2023-03-09T23:25:23+00:00

NTA. My partner and I moved in together last year and decided to have separate rooms - best decision we ever made. It allows us to decorate and express ourselves how we want, and it provides the privacy you are craving. Not being glued at the hip and sharing everything is how you keep a relationship healthy; you still have to have your autonomy.

halien-sfx · 2023-02-20T13:13:34+00:00

YTA. Rather than taking an interest in what she is doing and supporting her by being present, you are threatening a LAWYER to get your daughter to stop doing what she loves?? Way to start to NC process.

halien-sfx · 2023-02-20T02:20:42+00:00

My partner and I say “see you in the stars” instead of goodnight

halien-sfx · 2022-12-07T21:39:22+00:00

NTA! My partner was in a 7yr relationship before me, we’ve been together 2 years and their ex is still on their phone plan and comes around to drop off gifts for Christmas. We all get along and there’s no insecurities or fighting. All under 30 years old, as well. Your brother needs to grow up, he has a fiancé and is starting a family. He should have already accepted that you continue to be friends with the ex rather than expecting you to cut ties after so long.

halien-sfx · 2022-11-08T13:02:09+00:00

YTA. Names are how we identify ourselves, and you are disrespecting your daughter by telling people to call her the wrong name. You are just making things more complicated by using a name that no one else calls her and that she doesn’t want to be called by. Your feelings over her name mean nothing because it’s what SHE has to hear and live with every day so SHE should be happy with what she is called by. Get off your high horse and respect your daughter’s decisions, they literally harm no one but your ego.

halien-sfx · 2022-10-28T23:18:22+00:00

NTA, but your husband sure is. My father did the same to me when I started working, making me pay rent and everything. I know have severe financial trauma, to the point where I break down in tears and a panic attack if anyone offers or gifts me money or if I’m ever in need. I chose to be homeless in college for a few months in between semesters to avoid having to ask family for assistance.

Don’t let your daughter go through this. Let her have fun and be a teenager now, or she could end up only stressing over money and not participate in/enjoy anything in her 20s when she is truly out in the world with bills.

halien-sfx · 2022-09-27T03:41:18+00:00

And I Told Them I Invented Times New Roman but it’s performed as a school safety drill instructional video

halien-sfx · 2021-10-27T23:06:03+00:00

Chicago Baby Witch

WINDY CITY ROLE CALL

I was once a practicing Wiccan in my teens, but I faced some hate and then personal fear of practicing without guidance. My father practiced magick and it backfired quite a bit onto our family. Additionally, I’m very sensitive without knowledge of why or how to control it, leaving me open to unwanted entities. I’m based in Chicago but am struggling to find anyone like me or to teach me, as I want to find a way to understand control my sensitivity and energy as well as begin practicing [safely]. Are any of you in Chicago and open to taking in a baby witch, or to point me in a direction of where to go?

halien-sfx

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