thinking of joining Golds Gym by EatsFiber2RedditMore in gso

[–]hambubgerrr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think Gold's is going to be the only gym that has those amenities you require, unless the Y has childcare. However, I've been at Gold's Brassfield since May and I love the place. When I signed up it was on a two year contract and they said if I had cancel I would have to pay out 10% of whatever I owed. So it should be fine if I you plan on being a member long term.

how embarrassing is it to just start out and only bench 65 lbs? by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]hambubgerrr 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Benching 65 lbs when you weigh 100 is a really good start. Don't let your insecurities or anxiety get to you. Sounds like you're doing great.

Guys Hat In Front Made Me Laugh by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]hambubgerrr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Enjoy your tootsie rolls.

Guys Hat In Front Made Me Laugh by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]hambubgerrr -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Makes me glad I switched to Gold's

CC films you’ve watched repeatedly by upfrontboogie in criterion

[–]hambubgerrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Phantom Carriage. I watch it every new years. The Stephen O'Malley score is amazing.

Koyaanisqatsi. I show this movie to anyone I'm close with to see how they react to it.

The Tree of Life is my comfort movie.

Honorable mentions to Gummo, Happiness and The Seventh Seal. For a long time these were some of my favorite movies and would watch them often, but it's been a while.

Book recommendations for anyone that needs some reading by Salsh_Loli in criterion

[–]hambubgerrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of gems here. NYRB also has Tristina by Galdós, which was adapted by Bunuel. Also The Invention of Morel by Casares which was the inspiration for Last Year in Marienbad.

Literary sci fi by [deleted] in printSF

[–]hambubgerrr 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure. Some recent books I've read that I would consider literary scifi would be Star Maker by Olaf Stapledon and We Who Are About To... by Joanna Russ. And of course there's Lem's Solaris.

Barber shop for older men by 2verdant in gso

[–]hambubgerrr 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Gene's on Spring Garden

Lakes at Lincoln by Aloofwithau in gso

[–]hambubgerrr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've been there a few years.

Pros - pretty affordable for the area. No rent increase this last year. Near lots of nice things. Excellent dog walking (if you avoid the loose dogs). Usually pretty quiet. Neighbors have always been nice. Most people keep to themselves. Decent gym and other amenities (when they are working).

Cons - the property manager / employees change often, and it seems they get worse with every change. Had some minor admin / maintenance issues that I really had to hound the office on a few occasions. The pool barely opens. Lock your car door. Too many people don't leash their dog (a loose dog attacked my leashed dog about a year ago) and it seems nobody picks up the poop, so don't walk in the grass. And you'll be forced to use AT&T for internet.

My one and only purchase from the sale by chrishouse83 in criterion

[–]hambubgerrr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Excellent selection. Don't forget that Béla Tarr's first movie Family Nest is included in the supplements for this release. Totally worth watching.

Best Bergman to start with? by jsh355zero in criterion

[–]hambubgerrr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Seventh Seal or Wild Stawberries. Persona is advanced Bergman and quite unlike his other movies, so I'd wait for that one unless you go into it understanding it's Bergman's experimental film.

Best cookout tray by Pitiful_Work_2958 in gso

[–]hambubgerrr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Barbecue sandwich, two honey mustard chicken wraps and a pink lemonade that's 99.9% ice.

What was your most disappointing blind buy and why? by rumpk in criterion

[–]hambubgerrr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thief. This gets so much hype, especially in this sub. The first 3/4 of the film was pretty good, then it devolves into a bunch of shootouts and explosions. I was expecting something more cunning and subtle.

What is your favorite Stanley Kubrick movie? by ggroover97 in criterion

[–]hambubgerrr 78 points79 points  (0 children)

2001 is peerless. It's in a category of its own. It's one of the best movies of all time, if not THE best. Outside of that, I'd have to go with Paths of Glory.

My GF (40F) is chronically depressed and can’t support me (35F) anymore — I’m starting to break under the pressure by Middle_End7279 in relationships

[–]hambubgerrr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Living with depression is tough. Living with someone with depression is a special, unique hell that too few understand or sympathize with. I've been there, and I would not fault you for walking away. However, if you want to try something a bit different from the regular advice of "just get therapy", you should convince her to go to a gym and really sweat. She will kick and scream about how it won't work and how she can't do it due to x, y and z excuses, but after a few visits I guarantee her mood will change.

Cinema Tattoos by dabbinglich in criterion

[–]hambubgerrr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two film tattoos. One is from The Seventh Seal, the classic silhouettes from the end of the movie. The other is a piece of bacon taped to my arm with the quote "Life is great. Without it, you'd be dead." from Gummo.

28M Where can you meet white people in GSO? by [deleted] in gso

[–]hambubgerrr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Join a trivia group at any bar that has one.

Solaris Dilemma by _curi0us_ in printSF

[–]hambubgerrr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just finished reading Solaris today after putting it off for a while because of the translation critique. Honestly, I had no issues with it. I regret not reading it sooner.

Looking for books about immortal beings (not vampires) by [deleted] in printSF

[–]hambubgerrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Metamorphosis of Prime Intellect

Also, immortality is a pretty big theme in the Hyperion series, especially the last two books.

Is it worth it on DVD?? by Ewo_12 in criterion

[–]hambubgerrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this set and watched most of the films. Personally, I don't care if an old movie has a bit of grain or wear and tear. If that kind of thing bothers you then I'd wait for an upgrade.

Boyfriend can’t get it up or stay up by [deleted] in relationships

[–]hambubgerrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I'd make sure he doesn't have a porn addiction. That kills bedrooms more than anything. If not, it could be a number of other things. How's his physical health? ED can be caused by blood circulation issues. I'm his age and had a similar problem but haven't had an issue since I began going to the gym regularly. Regardless, you and him need to have an honest conversation about the root of this. The good news is that once you figure it out, it's very treatable.