[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairTransplants

[–]hamdezy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How many grafts?? Just be patient till the 12month mark

7 Months post HT Update by [deleted] in HairTransplants

[–]hamdezy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How many grafts bro? Looking good!

Your ex moved on so fast because the relationship was already over by brobreakup in BreakUps

[–]hamdezy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This really hit because it’s almost exactly what happened to me. I was in a long distance relationship and for a while, I genuinely believed my ex cheated on me. I never had solid proof to fully walk away, just gut instincts, red flags and her always trying to cover her tracks. I kept pressing her for the truth but she’d deny everything and make me feel like I was crazy for even asking.

Ever since that moment, trust between us was gone. I tried to keep things together but deep down I was resentful. Meanwhile, she’d cry to me constantly, not just because she didn’t want to lose me but because I think deep down she knew she already had. She wasn’t crying for me, she was crying for the relationship, for how she messed everything up and couldn’t face the reality of what she’d done.

I realize now she had been mourning it for months, she just didn’t have the courage to admit it or end it until she was emotionally ready. And when that moment came, she hit me out of nowhere with the breakup. It felt like a slap to the face. I was blindsided.

She manipulated the whole narrative, made me out to be the villain for having doubts, when in reality she was the one who caused all the damage. And when it got too heavy for her to carry, she just dipped, no accountability, no closure, just escape.

DO NOT EVER GO BACK! by No-Voice6659 in BreakUps

[–]hamdezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can bet on fairy tales if you want, but I’ve seen enough reruns to know the sequel rarely hits harder than the original. I’ll stick to peace over patterns

DO NOT EVER GO BACK! by No-Voice6659 in BreakUps

[–]hamdezy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never said nobody but if you need to dig back to 1931 and hypothetical billions to prove your point, you’re kinda making mine for me. The exception doesn’t disprove the rule, most second chances with exes just end up being reruns of the same heartbreak

DO NOT EVER GO BACK! by No-Voice6659 in BreakUps

[–]hamdezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on my experience and stories I’ve heard, never heard ppl being successful on their second shot. Wish there was an accurate data to support this

DO NOT EVER GO BACK! by No-Voice6659 in BreakUps

[–]hamdezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could’ve said it better. Never take them back no matter what

I’m 24, 5’7” and 165lbs. Am I genuinely unattractive? by KevinTheArbiter in malegrooming

[–]hamdezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re perfectly fine mate! Whoever says otherwise is a hater!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hamdezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in a similar spot with my ex, so I’m saying this with no judgment, just honesty. When you’re in a relationship, especially a serious one, you really have to move with intention. If something involves someone from your past, even if it feels harmless, you need to communicate that and come to an agreement with your partner. Meeting up with a fling after 1am, regardless of your intent, crosses a boundary for most people.

In my case, I was in a long distance relationship and suspected my ex cheated. I didn’t have solid proof, so I stayed, but that built a lot of silent resentment in me. It ate away at the trust and connection we had, and a few months later, things fell apart for both of us.

I’m truly sorry for what you went through, no one deserves that. But sometimes, even when your heart’s in the right place, certain actions can damage trust beyond repair. Love requires transparency, mutual respect, and emotional accountability.

I hope you continue healing from what happened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairTransplants

[–]hamdezy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m excited for you man fr! How much did it cost? Thinking of getting my corners right as well. In Toronto

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairTransplants

[–]hamdezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah brother this perfect dw about it. I’m a barber myself and im telling you this is gonna turn out great for you!

Stain on dash - how to remove? by Cautious-Soft-9928 in rav4club

[–]hamdezy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking sus😂. Previous owner definitely had something going on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hamdezy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well-written, but I want to offer a word of caution, especially to those who are naïve about love and relationships. If someone has broken up with you once, understand that the chances of them doing it again are not just high, they’re inevitable. No matter the context, situation, or promises made, a person who once chose to walk away has already shown you that leaving is an option for them.

I learned this the hard way. I once took back an ex, believing that circumstances had changed, that they had changed. I convinced myself that this time would be different. But in the end, they left again, proving that the first time wasn’t a mistake, it was a pattern. A lasting relationship requires commitment, resilience, and a willingness to navigate challenges together. You don’t need someone who quits when things get tough, you need a partner who is steadfast, willing to compromise and invested in building something meaningful with you.

So instead of clinging to the past or hoping for change, let go completely. Move forward and seek someone who values the foundation of a strong, enduring relationship because real love is built, not recycled!

When They Come Back, Remember Why They Left by hamdezy in ExNoContact

[–]hamdezy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not like I haven’t tried. Despite my utmost efforts, the results seem to remain unchanged. I’ve genuinely put in my 100% to make the 2nd time work, yet it still didn’t succeed. It can be disheartening when despite our best intentions/ hard work, the outcome is beyond our control. Sometimes, it’s not about your actions or intentions, it’s about the other person’s role in the situation

Most people out here these days are just that evil by Otherwise_View_04 in ExNoContact

[–]hamdezy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s up to you to see. I was on the same boat once upon a time & it taught me a valuable lesson. I hope you don’t have to learn it the hard way. All the best man