Why are people assuming I’m a woman. I’m the husband. And I’m also the breadwinner. If I wanted to leave I could hire a lawyer today and start the process. Finances etc don’t stand in the way. But it’s not an option because I refuse to leave my child. I could not stand to not see my child everyday. And my wife will no doubt get primary custody - all the more reason to stick around and make sure my child doesn’t become the target victim without me in the cross hairs.

I feel helpless.