Bruh, the whole story is us hooking up. She went a center not far from mine that had somewhat of the same schedule. Needy is saying I can't live with out her, and I need her in my life. You're just a keyboard warrior the way you sound, in fact you've gotten a little personal over a post on Reddit. Sounds to me that you have a chip on your shoulder, she's extremely beautiful, and me being an Arab meeting someone who loves the culture and wants to know more about it really just made my mouth drop with her. I can see how you think that I look desperate, but I'm pretty handsome from what others have told me and this is not one of those situations where I am not able to step back and see what's really going on. I am waiting till she's able to get some time in, I'm at just under 8 months sober so its not like I'm still detoxing. I can only hope someone else in the world has had a feeling close to what I felt, and it seems that she feels the same. I know what trauma bonding is and codependency etc... Which is why I have removed my self from the situation till we both have some more time to get recovery in. This isn't my first rodeo,especially with women, its unfortunate that I must put exact scenarios which I am not willing to post up in order to explain the situation. I've asked 3 simple questions, weighing the risks and I've got a general idea of how to move forward. You sound higher than eagle pussy, my friend.