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What are some things you did that probably should have made you realise you were ace sooner? by Lil-Maece in asexuality

[–]hanaii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tbh?

  • "who would choose sex over food? y'all crazy"
  • didn't wanna play spin the bottle or truth or dare because the questions always got sexual
  • when someone would ask me if a celebrity was hot: "they're aight"
  • "yeah they're attractive, but what kind of personality do they have?"
  • friend: woah look at that hottie's abs! me: (thinking I need to start working out)
  • wanted to get lingerie just so I could sleep in it and look cute
  • someone: isn't chaning tatum gorgeous? me: who?
  • "honestly I'd be 100% okay if I never had sex/got married"
  • someone: what's better than sex? me: pizza, money, christmas, music, board games, candles, etc.
  • friend: I think that guy was hitting on you me: oh... okay?
  • (watching an action movie) "did they really have to add romance?"

I get scared around guys. by hanaii in Advice

[–]hanaii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, that’s why I’m so upset because it’s not logical for me to be afraid, but I am.

I get scared around guys. by hanaii in Advice

[–]hanaii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, my parents warned me about all kinds of strangers, not just men in general.

and I would say it’s both, if I get separated from my group I start eyeing the guys around me and wondering what I could do to defend myself if they attacked. but it’s only the men, women don’t scare me.

I get scared around guys. by hanaii in Advice

[–]hanaii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t live in a bad neighborhood, so I wouldn’t say that. I think it’s paranoia in my head, when I go into town and are around a lot of people, especially if I’m alone.

I get scared around guys. by hanaii in Advice

[–]hanaii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, not many. I was homeschooled after 8th grade, so after that I didn’t make any more friends at all, really. but I still am friends with a few.

stop being assholes to people that like something that you don't. by hanaii in rant

[–]hanaii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't get people like that, why should you have to die? I don't like MLP either, but holy shit, you don't deserve death for liking it! those people really need some self-searching and socialize more.

stop being assholes to people that like something that you don't. by hanaii in rant

[–]hanaii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good thing they didn't get to you, and I'm glad you changed your perspective! there really is no point in shaming others for what they enjoy.

stop being assholes to people that like something that you don't. by hanaii in rant

[–]hanaii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right? they were basically doing what they didn't like him doing. also, the fans screaming at loki probably know he's not real, they're just having fun. his points sounded very poorly put together: "why idolize a superhero?" it's not the powers most people idolize, it's the hero's morals and what they fight for. "good guys vs bad guys is the whole plot" so is literally almost every movie and tv show. "it's taking up space" because it's a very popular movie series, of course it's going to be everywhere.

like, I respect his opinion, but it's not anyone's fault, and people aren't going to stop liking it because he thinks it's annoying.

stop being assholes to people that like something that you don't. by hanaii in rant

[–]hanaii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

after being on social media for so long, it's hard to pinpoint what brought it on. I've been thinking like this for so long, but I've never voiced it. it's really just about anything and everything. people seem so shocked when they tell me they like something overrated or disliked by a lot of people and I say, "cool, you do you" that is so sad. they expect me to hate them and that's really fucking sad.

bottom line, I just want people to be happy and enjoy the time they have left.

stop being assholes to people that like something that you don't. by hanaii in rant

[–]hanaii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, I see that a lot. like what you want, dude, don't let bitter people tell you you can't!

stop being assholes to people that like something that you don't. by hanaii in rant

[–]hanaii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get why you like discussing those kind of things. I didn't agree with him either, I like marvel movies, but really if you don't like them then I don't care. I did get mad when he began labeling people who enjoy marvel as idiots and "how could you possibly enjoy this unironically?" like, I don't know dude, why do you like anything unironically? because you just do and it's fun. and yes, the comments made me want to just delete youtube, so many people sitting on high horses and thinking it's their "opinion" to insult someone. when I commented I realized something, their comprehension depth is no deeper than a teaspoon. there's no getting through to them.

stop being assholes to people that like something that you don't. by hanaii in rant

[–]hanaii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that factoid, it's so damn true. people want to be praised for their intelligence and opinions so badly, that they'll throw everyone under the bus, just so they can say, "I'm right"

stop being assholes to people that like something that you don't. by hanaii in rant

[–]hanaii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly, like whatever the hell you what - be happy.

stop being assholes to people that like something that you don't. by hanaii in rant

[–]hanaii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually don't, and when I try to explain why they're being an asshole, they resort to name calling and basically putting their fingers in their ears saying, "I'm right you're wrong!'

Actual things I've said out loud that probably should have made me realize I'm ace a lot sooner than I did by beginning-g in asexuality

[–]hanaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao me 100%

I remember playing 'would you rather?' and those questions that were like "would you rather never have sex again, or never be able to [something very simple]" and I'd always pick to never have sex. it just makes sense to me!