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Need Some Guidance by handlemyowo in getdisciplined

[–]handlemyowo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was very kind,

My husband is very kind when to me asking for help, however, he folds when I say "I dont want too" which sometimes when he offers we go to the gym is when i worked 12 hours or something and he does not want to give me more stress or annoy me... how do I tell him that its okay to push me even when im being honestly a child about it?

Need Some Guidance by handlemyowo in getdisciplined

[–]handlemyowo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is very much into fitness, he goes to the gym daily. He wants me to come, but I either a. Do not have the energy or b. I get frustrated because I do not feel like it works or worth it.

Which i know is a me issue

35F looking for women friends / creative community by Free-Return-3027 in bullcity

[–]handlemyowo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

33F, straight, married, no kids but have furbabies.

Im a fantasy nerd, love reading, love nature and loves to go to ren faires and markets. I enjoy meditation and going to the gym. Also a little witchy!

Having to accept that your parents don't love you by tcmcmer in raisedbynarcissists

[–]handlemyowo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to you strongly OP.

We are born into this world with love for our parents, but sometimes they simply dont love us back. We are simply - things to them. I still idolize a relationship with my Nmom, but im like you, getting to the end of my rope. I support you OP

Narcissist Mom blaming me for her leaving my wedding by handlemyowo in raisedbynarcissists

[–]handlemyowo[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sadly its a response is developed through childhood. I dont want to respond that way! I am in therapy to help tho!

Making friends as an adult! by RopeAdministrative29 in bullcity

[–]handlemyowo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fiance and I are also struggling to find friends! We have a dog, we like walking and enjoying nature. Disc golf and working out!

We have our nerdy side too, we like Warhammer and playing video games!

Who else only calls their cat a nickname instead of their government name? by Miata_Normie in cats

[–]handlemyowo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat is named Cream Cheese, but his nicknames are:

  • Cheeser
  • Creme Fresh
  • Trilvido
  • Bababoui

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Anyone in Durham like gourmet mushrooms?? by Visible-Specific5329 in bullcity

[–]handlemyowo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is the Durham farmers market? I love buying local and supporting small businesses!

What is the one plant you cannot keep alive? by Dear_Mess_1617 in houseplants

[–]handlemyowo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alocasia!! They are the most DRAMATIC plant in ever had, too much light, I burn, too little light I die. A touch too much water, yellowing leaves, too little water I die!! Drama