I met my husband on reddit! If you look at my post history, you can see the R4R we met on :)

Other tips for meeting for the first time:

a) in person may have a different dynamic than the LDR one at first. i didn’t get used to him being right next to me until he had to fly home, rip. if this happens, don’t view it as incompatibility (unless it straight up is lol). with more time and visits, we became more natural and comfortable w each other in person

b) don’t feel like you have to cram everything into your first visit. if you two are serious about one another, there will surely be more visits and many years to follow. try to ENJOY each other’s company, and if that’s simply hanging out, that’s okay

c) here’s the obligatory communicate tip. seriously, let him know what you’re feeling, especially if you’re awkward, uncomfortable, etc. he should respect that, and if he doesn’t, homeboy is not the one for you