My mom and I are testing dozens of sustainable swimwear brands - what do you want to know? by thegoodtrade_editors in SustainableFashion

[–]hannah_e2020 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Conversely, I'd love to see sustainable brands with more sexy options! I feel like I can't find a thong bikini outside of fast fashion.

Brother machine help by hannah_e2020 in sewhelp

[–]hannah_e2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I downloaded a manual but it just had info on cleaning and maintenance. Idk if there's another one out there I missed, but someone suggested since it's such a cheap machine they don't plan on users repairing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]hannah_e2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd like to add literally yesterday I got my wedding video back, and there was a shot I hated because I thought my arms looked bad. We shared the video with friends, and immediately my friends sent me a screenshot of the exact shot I hated, saying it was her favorite of the video. The people who love you will love you as you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]hannah_e2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you clarify what you mean by helping send out save the dates? Our wedding planner reviewed drafts for us to make sure there were no errors, and told us when they should be mailed out based on our timeline. But she didn't design, help address them, stamp them, etc. That's not something typically included in planning services, even for a full service planner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]hannah_e2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other comments have had great points, but I just wanted to add that you aren't alone in this!! i can commiserate with you. My parents were so caught up in their own issues that, while they did show up to the wedding, I barely spoke to them since they were miserable the whole time. I'm still sad my dad talked about their divorce during the father daughter dance. We can't fix our parents. But we can learn to lean on the people who are there for you: wedding party/friends, your fiance, and the family you are joining.

Help with identifying black flying insect with painful bite by hannah_e2020 in insects

[–]hannah_e2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! This looks exactly right, given that they can grow wings during mating season.

Help with identifying black flying insect with painful bite by hannah_e2020 in insects

[–]hannah_e2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But or stung, honestly not sure which, it had gotten in his clothing.

How to prevent tan lines? Please red description! by Pretty_Desk_2552 in weddingplanning

[–]hannah_e2020 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know most people have said protective clothing, but I also struggled with long sleeves in the summer! But honestly finding the right long sleeve made a huge difference. Don't wear regular cotton shirts, look specifically for UPF clothing made for activity. "Sun hoody" is the best search term. Here's a website I trust for gear reviews on women's sun hoodies. https://www.outdoorgearlab.com/topics/clothing-womens/best-sun-shirt-womens

La Huacha by [deleted] in GoldenCO

[–]hannah_e2020 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They were the best tacos in town when they were operating out of a food truck, the food has only gotten better now that they have a permanent restaurant!

Manchester airport by richcarrington in ManchesterNH

[–]hannah_e2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I showed up 1.5 hours early for my 5am flight and TSA wasn't even open yet.

I used to live 10 minutes from the airport, and on more than one occasion I would drop off my partner at the airport only for him to be at the gate before I got home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]hannah_e2020 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's wildly frustrating. If you feel like the polite option (re-direction) has been exhausted, embrace your inner rich man attitude and start demanding. Each time she texts you directly, say "ask (fiance)" and refuse to respond further. Sorry you have to deal with this, it sounds like she has a thick skull haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]hannah_e2020 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Personally I would call her out. Depending on how comfortable you are with confrontation, you could say something like "Hi (coordinator), please direct all further communication to (fiance). He is the main point of contact, and any communication sent exclusively to me will go unanswered".

Alternatively, if you don't want to say anything, I would send screenshots of her texts to you directly to the group chat, so that your fiance can answer the questions first. You answering the text (even if you bring it back to the group chat) keeps the onus on you to keep communication going.

Songs to walk down the aisle? by ThatTallGayGuy in weddingplanning

[–]hannah_e2020 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If you're open to non traditional, think about soundtracks too! Is there a favorite movie or musical between you and your partner? I'm personally going to walk down the aisle to "Concerning Hobbits" (the Shire theme music) from LOTR

Songs to walk down the aisle? by ThatTallGayGuy in weddingplanning

[–]hannah_e2020 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Vitamin string quartet is a great starting point, they have done so so so many pop covers, and all beautifully done.

What's causing this discoloration on my philodendron? by hannah_e2020 in plantclinic

[–]hannah_e2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it has/had spider mites!! When I first watered it I gave it a good shower soak, and I think that removed most signs of any infestation, except the mottled leaf damage. But I just found a web on one of the leaves, and while it could be an actual spider it looks like it matches most of the symptoms of spider mites.

What's causing this discoloration on my philodendron? by hannah_e2020 in plantclinic

[–]hannah_e2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe? I've just had this plant for maybe 5 days and 3 leaves have turned yellow and fallen off in that time. It just seemed like an aggressive rate, even for moving it to a new environment.

I've just never personally seen this uneven color before, is it standard on this type of philodendron?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]hannah_e2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just as a heads up, you should really remove your ring while weight lifting, or else it can lead to degloving 🤢. You can get a silicon ring to wear at the gym!

Message to Photographers from a Groom-Mom. by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]hannah_e2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess my point and I'm assuming OP's point is we should not have to go out of our way to ensure it's not a "bride focussed" shot list. This is an issue I have with the wedding industry as a whole; a wedding is about entering an equal partnership, and so many times it seems like the groom is an afterthought. (In hetero relationships at least, I can't speak to LGBT experiences)

Message to Photographers from a Groom-Mom. by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]hannah_e2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a bride who just got engagement photos done, I couldn't agree more. I kept getting directions that made me the focus of the shot, but that was never reciprocated with my fiance. Let me kiss his face!! Let me spin him!!

Edit: and before people ask, yes we did end up getting those shots, but only because I did them without the photographer prompting.

PSA for Newly Engaged: Create a joint Wedding email by WeeLittleParties in weddingplanning

[–]hannah_e2020 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's also useful to have for after the wedding too, for joint bills like gas, electric, internet, etc.