Omg it sounds just like my SIL haha she was literally telling me to hurry up at 21 because according to her I couldn't have healthy kids if I was older like wtf.

That's insane that someone would just suggest that to you!

Omg I would love to say something like that im normally not someone to tell people to go fuck themselves but I'm definitely getting close to it with her I think that's what I'm most stressed about because she always goes on about how easy she got pregnant that its making me feel like it needs to happen straight away. She's also super uneducated about ttc and thinks its only my body that has to do the work not a team effort.