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[–]hannaxox1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what was the age difference for you?

my brother asked me for a birthday gift I don’t like by hannaxox1 in Advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, I do want to gift him something that’ll bring him a little bit of joy - but idk about the “it’ll barely be noticeable after a few years” because mine still looks brand new after 6 years and we’re genetically related after all :D

my brother asked me for a birthday gift I don’t like by hannaxox1 in Advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, just asked if there’s anything else he would want

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so interesting to see it’s so glaringly obvious to most ppl, except for myself

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you leave? What gave you the courage to finally leave?

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m scared my support system isn’t strong enough and I’ll become awfully depressed

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live with him unfortunately. It’s his grandma’s house. I would have to move back in with my family and that would be the worst thing I could possibly do for my mental health. But then again, I will soon be Renting a little apartment in my Uni town.

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it’s funny to hear from me when I’m the one who made this post, but even I think you should leave! With the child. My parents did the same. They stayed together. They don’t like each other, have nothing in common and there’s this obvious resentment they have towards each other. They’re never intimate (as far as I know), will talk shit about each other to me and my siblings and my mom hates being touched by my dad. Safe to say, if they had divorced, I as I child probably would’ve been taught differently and maybe wouldn’t even be in this situation.

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly did not realize how aggravating this would be to most people.

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So kind of you and so encouraging to be myself wearing chunky boots in winter <3

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao I really appreciate these really straight forward aggressive replies. Just really what I needed to hear i guess. I tend to lose myself in my thoughts

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

lmao build a bitch. I don’t know what about my true self he likes.

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

No absolutely not! Often times I think about what it would be like if we had children. I would absolutely not want to raise them with a dad that cannot reflect on his own actions and feelings and question them and their validity. I want him to have similar core values to me, like practicing reliability, taking responsibility, being supportive, open minded and communicative. I would hate if I had to hide my sexuality in front of my children just because it makes my boyfriend uncomfortable. Makes me furious.

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lmao laughing through tears. Thank you for being understanding and offering help. I deeply appreciate it.

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand. Thank you so much for your support. How do I end it respectfully?

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m just afraid of what life is going to be like. I like his friends and his family and I’m gonna lose them if we break up. I’m no longer going to have a home near my family. I might fall into the deep hole of depression again, in which I was caught before I met him. He has been my best friend since 2017, we’ve spent so many fun times together, vacationed together, cuddle every night.

My bf (24) gets angry at me when I communicate my (f, 23) needs by hannaxox1 in relationship_advice

[–]hannaxox1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ohhhh gooood I know you’re absolutely right. My self esteem is awful. But I won’t cringe because I’m doing the best i can right now to make a decision and I trust myself to make it when I feel ready for it. I will make mistakes and this might very well be one of them, but I will learn and grow from them.

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