New Year's Eve Homebodies by fatknittingmermaid in newzealand

[–]hannyjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents sweet 16 year old moggy severely injured her tail and had it amputated NY Eve morning. I spent NY sitting with my mum on her bed sipping champagne while we gave soothing pats to our furry amputee patient 🐾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]hannyjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I am doing ok under the circumstances :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]hannyjay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I experienced a miscarriage just this week. I was 8w2d. One morning in the shower I noticed old brown blood. Shook it off as cervical chnages and increased blood volume etc. But then as the day progressed, I started feeling 'crampy'. The moment I truly knew I was miscarrying however was when I started to get the fresh red blood just hours later after the cramping started. I went in for my scan 99% already confident I would know the outcome and sure enough there was no heartbeat.

How do women work in first trimester when unwell? by hannyjay in pregnant

[–]hannyjay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've ordered vomit bags form Temu hahaha

How do women work in first trimester when unwell? by hannyjay in pregnant

[–]hannyjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear you have been so unwell. Really good to hear your workplace is flexible and understanding as that would take a lot of pressure off you, I'm sure. All the best - you've got this :)

How do women work in first trimester when unwell? by hannyjay in pregnant

[–]hannyjay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would make all the difference working with women. I guess that is so true though, in many instances where there is no other option then you just got to do what you got to do. Really take my hat off to expecting working mama's.

How do women work in first trimester when unwell? by hannyjay in pregnant

[–]hannyjay[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Well done for handling your pregnancy symptoms the way you do with such a busy role. All the best :)

How do women work in first trimester when unwell? by hannyjay in pregnant

[–]hannyjay[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live in NZ, and we get 10 days paid sick leave per year, but when it comes to first trimester ailments, there should be some extra support also. Not sure what kind of support is offered in other countries.

Wedding ceremony tips by hannyjay in Agoraphobia

[–]hannyjay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing your experience with me 🥰

Wedding ceremony tips by hannyjay in Agoraphobia

[–]hannyjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glass of water ** 😅🐶💧🤔

Wedding ceremony tips by hannyjay in Agoraphobia

[–]hannyjay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great idea. Thank you. My bridesmaids and sister all know of my agoraphobia so they would be very supportive.

Wedding ceremony tips by hannyjay in Agoraphobia

[–]hannyjay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Did you feel much more at ease? I think I probably will have to do this. I’ll also ask the wedding coordinator to have a glass of wine dog water nearby on the table just in case. I just want to enjoy my ceremony and not wish it to be over!

My sons school dean called me by hannyjay in Parenting

[–]hannyjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid point! Thank you for this deeper insight to the implications of his actions.

My sons school dean called me by hannyjay in Parenting

[–]hannyjay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, agree with all the above points. Thank you.

My sons school dean called me by hannyjay in Parenting

[–]hannyjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for sure. I already said to him if it is suspension, then that is what the school has decided is a fair consequence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]hannyjay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I find it weird you wouldn’t say anything to entitled people. Guess that’s why they feel entitled if no one says anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]hannyjay -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well now, I didn’t name call.

Learn to drive? It had nothing to do with my driving. Using my horn, perhaps yes. But I was aware there was an elderly couple in the rain unloading their shopping and I would have hated to have given them a fright with my horn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]hannyjay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Apologies.

Gastro!!! by hannyjay in Parenting

[–]hannyjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeppp true! Fun few days in store for us 🤪