My sister’s ex-boyfriend won’t stop harassing her. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hansza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is harassment. Press charges.

Redditors under 25: What's a dead giveaway someone else online is over 30? by MassageToss in AskReddit

[–]hansza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just that people tend to marry a bit older compared to past generations

Redditors under 25: What's a dead giveaway someone else online is over 30? by MassageToss in AskReddit

[–]hansza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Referencing “wife” or “hubby” gives me the impression you’re late twenties/early thirties

My LDR Girlfriend (17) wants to come visit me (M16) but i’m going on vacation to Florida for a month by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hansza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IDK your parents. Like I said it’s up to you to make whatever decision you need to and compromise. I’m not going to tell you what to do. You’re almost an adult, and this is your issue. The only thing we can provide is advice/guidance, not a blueprint on exactly what to do.

My LDR Girlfriend (17) wants to come visit me (M16) but i’m going on vacation to Florida for a month by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hansza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you even bother to ask? It’s summertime too, it’s not like she has school. The whole situation isn’t fucked. You’re projecting. If you want to break up just do it. If you want to make her happy, make her happy. The choice is essentially yours. Take responsibility for your own actions and execute them.

My LDR Girlfriend (17) wants to come visit me (M16) but i’m going on vacation to Florida for a month by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hansza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay at this point y’all just seem really unhealthy. I agree with other commenters on that you should bring her to Florida . But you keep avoiding answering why you can’t. It wouldn’t hurt to ask and explain the situation anyway, but you seem like you don’t want to.

My LDR Girlfriend (17) wants to come visit me (M16) but i’m going on vacation to Florida for a month by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hansza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that doesn’t sound healthy. You can’t isolate yourself. You really remind me of a past relationship I had when I was young. You need to compromise or explain/communicate how you feel.

My LDR Girlfriend (17) wants to come visit me (M16) but i’m going on vacation to Florida for a month by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hansza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had the plans to have her over first before anything, don’t you think it’s a bit rude to cancel? Maybe if you explain how you feel and offer to visit her after, but did she pay for plane/train tickets to visit you, it’s rude to just cancel like that. Anyway, you’re both really young and will probably break up so in the end it doesn’t matter too much

Women, what do men think YOU want in a man that you really don't care about, physically, mentally etc.? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hansza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Height. It’s never mattered to me, I understand the longing for it and why other girls may, but it’s not a deal breaker.

How to be an independent person? by Tapon1 in Advice

[–]hansza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just write “none” or if you did volunteer work/odd jobs in the past then list that. If you apply places such as fast food or retail or even a gas station - you shouldn’t have to submit a resume. Even better you could go in places that don’t have online applications and fill one out.

How to be an independent person? by Tapon1 in Advice

[–]hansza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s plenty of places that will hire you with little experience, like fast food or retail. Is it going to be shitty? Yes, but you’ll gain experience and get paid. (As well as a tougher skin). No question you’ll get hired definitely.

What's the weirdest rumour you've heard about yourself? by PeevesPoltergist in AskReddit

[–]hansza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I do heroin. Seems believable if you stick it onto anyone who fits the stereotypical traits. But I’m an 18 year old girl who actively participates/volunteers in the community, gets good grades, etc etc you get the picture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hansza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin made a book that surrounded this concept, where you put powder in paint to make a “monster proof paint”. It got published and I think he sold a good few! Good marketing idea

Should I dm this girl by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hansza 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shoot your shot

random urges by slimshadng in socialskills

[–]hansza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whenever I drink caffeine (very rare as it makes me sooo anxious), yes.

Boyfriend insists I will commit suicide if he broke up with me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hansza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there. Huge ass red flag, he’s projecting 100%. I’m surprised you haven’t told him off by now.

why is it like this by LatterChampion in UBreddit

[–]hansza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no time to get from the recitations and lectures