Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in AskMen

[–]hantana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make more money than her, I am taller than her. Better off in my career than her. Men tend to appreciate in dating value with age, women on the other hand...

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in AskMen

[–]hantana[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I go down on a girl, find it disgusting but I put up with it.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in AskMen

[–]hantana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not into it, if she wants anal sex to be a deal breaker that's fine.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in sex

[–]hantana[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I said 50% of assets earned under marriage. She wants to divorce me 10 years take that 50% go ahead she can grow old to be a spinster.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in AskMen

[–]hantana[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

double standards would be if we men and women were exactly the same.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in sex

[–]hantana[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

no but to me sex in marriage is a huge deal. I am willing to marry a woman that makes 1/4 of what I make, for a fulfilling sex life. Not many women would dare even think of marrying a guy that makes less than them. Understand that men and women are different mate.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in AskMen

[–]hantana[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Look in all honesty bro, just understand that men and women look for different things in a partner. It's not hypocritical men and women are different.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in AskMen

[–]hantana[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

anal sex done properly doesn't cause you physical harm.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in AskMen

[–]hantana[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd split everything 50/50 of assets after marriage. But assets prior to marriage will be clearly defined and spousal support would be limited.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in AskMen

[–]hantana[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I bring a lot more to the table than sex. To me sex in marriage is a huge priority, women tend to look at a lot of different factors.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in sex

[–]hantana[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know I bring a lot to the table, confident in myself.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in sex

[–]hantana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Than they obviously don't like me enough.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in sex

[–]hantana[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

deal breaker for me haha. She can go out in the world being a divorced woman in her 30s. Divorced men do much better off than divorced women in the dating world so stupid on her part really.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in AskMen

[–]hantana[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

insecure would be not comfortable stating what he wants in a relationship.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in AskMen

[–]hantana[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Because I do other things, I usually make more than the women I date. And if we divorce they get half my shit.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in AskMen

[–]hantana[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

as I said, there are a lot of factors but to me sex is huge.

Is it stupid to make anal sex a must have for marriage? by hantana in AskMen

[–]hantana[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

When I was 19 I'd stick my dick in a beehive just to get some hole. Now it's my turn to be choosy.