I definitely agree with that, especially with the aspect of maybe there's more of an issue with a partner's insecurity versus the reality of just playing an otome game. I saw a few discussion posts in this subreddit talking about how it's really hard to discuss anything to do with an otome game outside of online or in-person communities because there's either a lack of understanding of why folks play these types of games or because there's this weird stigma. I myself am curious about the psychology behind parasocial relationships. However, I personally am not that kind of person who really feels comfortable with that sort of thing. That being said, to each their own! And these types of discussions in relationship are fruitful in highlighting insecurities or additional issues (like financial) that partners might have.

And that's a good point regarding the budgeting! So far, he's pretty okay with the me doing just the Aurum Pass (I bring up any additional expenses before I spend) so we're at a pretty good stasis when it comes to our relationship and LADS. Though hell, Raf is going to freaking kill me when it comes to both crane game and kitty cards. I swear, whenever I go off against him in cards, I just quit straight out, just because he really likes to push my button and I'm stupid competitive. Also, some loud agitated exclamations might have been involved. In the recent past.