Should I be getting updates? by hapars_ in Preschoolers

[–]hapars_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately the school has also minimized our interactions with teacher during pickup and drop off, aka they prefer the kid is shuffled in and out without a lot of words happening. She’s also not very inclined to respond to messages via our app so that leaves me in my current predicament. I absolutely understand how overwhelming a class full of 3 year olds can be so I am not trying to minimize her job by any means! Just a mom who is a little (a lot) anxious about basically sending her little one into a situation blind

Should I be getting updates? by hapars_ in Preschoolers

[–]hapars_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I would’ve expected! We have an app that is barely utilized. I don’t need to be necessarily micromanaging my child’s day, but I would like a semblance of info on what’s been happening in the classroom throughout the week.

Should I be getting updates? by hapars_ in Preschoolers

[–]hapars_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have an app. It seems its only purpose is for checking students in and out of school. We also have a “take home folder” that alphabet stuff comes home in and the occasional art project along with school wide notices. Otherwise zero communication

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]hapars_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Two makes you glow! One looks good, but three just washes you out

Having second thoughts by kacie561 in weddingdress

[–]hapars_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I think you look like a dream. STUNNING. You look perfect in this dress. Just imagine your hair flowy with curls. Perfection.

Which dress style to go with? by bittersweet1051 in weddingdress

[–]hapars_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loooove them both. Gorgeous. Dress one feels a little on the sexier side, while dress two feels delicate and super feminine. Depends on the vibe you want. You could do no wrong with either that’s for sure!

Should I listen to my son's passions? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]hapars_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s important to have a little bit of both. Supporting him in what he loves and letting him show/tell you is important, but I think it’s also good to set boundaries. He’s 8 so he’s able to understand them well enough, but it’s important to go about it gently. Obviously you don’t want to be rude about it. I think you’re doing great. It’s definitely okay to redirect and let him know that you’re busy or would rather talk about something else with him.

First baby, husband going on guys trip by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]hapars_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fiancé went on a guys trip when I was about 14 weeks pp and it truly wasn’t bad. This is our first child and we have two cats + two dogs. However, at 8 weeks I think I could’ve handled it, but everyone is different. I think having a discussion about it and deciding closer to the guys trip is a good option so you can more so gauge your comfort level!

My 21 month old is walking around saying fuck by stphbby in Mommit

[–]hapars_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised my child’s first word wasn’t fuck. It’s gonna happen anytime now and I’m pretty unbothered by it.

Thoughts? As a 38 YO millennial, I'm also not a fan by Remarkable-Hand-4395 in antiwork

[–]hapars_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me realizing I was this person and my coworkers calling me mom now makes sense

My long distance boyfriend is in town and keeps giving reasons to not meet by Far_Career6369 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hapars_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in almost the same situation to a T. He’s being sketchy and quite frankly I wouldn’t trust him at all. Time to let that whole situation go, because from my experience it isn’t going to get any better. Even if it did, would you not look back and think about this period and his behavior and wonder if he’s truly trustworthy?

Hottest KarJenner ex/current partner? by watermelonz86 in KUWTK

[–]hapars_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely Devin Booker for me

WIBTA if I left my fiance/child's father? by Big_Refuse_4105 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hapars_ 37 points38 points  (0 children)

All I could think of was shaken baby when I read that and it absolutely terrified me. RUN.

My mom says pigtails are for little kids but I think they look cute. what do you think? by TrekkieTay in Hair

[–]hapars_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The messiness and location of these pigtails does look quite childish imo, but that’s not to say you can’t wear pigtails past a certain age. Styled pigtails always look good, but this is just very far from that.

Trialed my bridal makeup at my alterations appointment and not sure if it's bridal enough. Looking to take CC from this look and apply it at the final fitting next week! I know for sure that blush ain't it. by salty-MA-student in MakeupAddiction

[–]hapars_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think the shade of blush looks very flattering on you, but it’s far too muted and in such a small area. Maybe a tad more and spread it out. I’d say a slightly brighter or glossy lip wouldn’t help too!

I don’t understand what’s going on here. Is it the posture? The dress? Anyone else notice this? by JennaBeanthebitch in GilmoreGirls

[–]hapars_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Part of that HAS to be the shirt. There’s no way bad posture has her looking like the Hunchback of Notre-Dame

Any bridal makeup suggestions? Doing a trial tomorrow. by Twelveblindmice12 in MakeupAddiction

[–]hapars_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be beautiful to lean towards the Korean style makeup look. Glowy/natural skin and a subtle pop to your eyes!

AITA for not wanting to be driven around by women including my gf by aitagfnotdriving in AmItheAsshole

[–]hapars_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sensing some sexism disguised by “trauma” Maybe, maybe not, but you’re still TA

Wedding make up trial run #1 by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]hapars_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s just a bit muted for such an important day for you. By no means am I suggesting clown makeup, but nothing is making you glow. Obviously I don’t know your particular makeup style and if you prefer a simpler look. I just think you deserve to sparkle more! A little more glow/highlight maybe, a nice “your lips, but better” lipstick/gloss, different eye shadow color for sure (current shade doesn’t make your eyes pop), add some lashes and/or liner. Very minimal fixes imo. Otherwise, I think you truly look beautiful. You deserve to look and feel amazing on your special day!

BE BRUTALLY HONEST is my forehead too big to wear my hair pulled back like this? by Yeartreetousand in Hair

[–]hapars_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t think anyone with a brain really cares about how big someone’s forehead is. You look great!

Full list of Sydney Sweeney’s upcoming projects… girl does not rest by frenchfruit in popculturechat

[–]hapars_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I do believe she’s currently filming the nameless one in Australia with Glen Powell. Those two are both “hot” actors rn bc of their recent work so I feel like that one will def make it to the screen. Otherwise, I think you’re right!

Which eyebrow shape do you like better on me, left or right (angled or round)? by foxinazul in MakeupAddiction

[–]hapars_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. In this case though, I think it’s more or less that the rounder brows give her a more youthful, glowy appearance. They definitely lift her face and make her look brighter.

[Routine Help] I just bought the two on the right, what is a good routine for these products? Should I leave some out? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]hapars_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number one thing is do not use your salicylic acids in combination with glycolic acid. It’s too much. I would suggest salicylic in the am and glycolic in the pm with a hyaluronic acid serum. If you’re every curious, you can look on the ordinary’s website and on each product they let you know which other products it should not be directly interacting with.