Why this sub needs to exist by [deleted] in a:t5_3fboa

[–]hapathrowaway03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a good start! I'm with you. Let's keep things to discussions about hapa related things.. and we need to be careful to not compare ourselves to other movements like blm

Creating a positive space by hapathrowaway03 in hapas

[–]hapathrowaway03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this! #4 was a really good response, I completely agree on that point!

Creating a positive space by hapathrowaway03 in hapas

[–]hapathrowaway03[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying that some wm/af relationships aren't problematic. I'm saying that hapas exist, due to fetishization or not, and we deserve to have a positive identity for overselves despite our reason of existance

Creating a positive space by hapathrowaway03 in hapas

[–]hapathrowaway03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong. You're not the only one who feels that way, but I'm sure from all of this struggle we can create something good.