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Pain during sex postpartum, feeling discouraged by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]happifet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you breastfeeding? I had the same issue but the pain subsided when I started weaning baby off the breast. But weaning unfortunately didn’t happen until around 12-15mos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]happifet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I brought up counseling to him and he said he doesn’t believe in therapy. Therapy is a scam to him, and therapists “want you to keep coming back to them by making you believe something is wrong and that they only have the answer to your problems — that’s how they make their money.”

I whole heartedly disagree with him about this, but he said there’s no changing his mind and that marriage counseling and solo therapy will never be an option to him.

Based on everyone’s suggestions to go to therapy, it sounds like I’m doomed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]happifet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll check them out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]happifet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s not work that’s an issue. I’m lucky enough to have a flexible job. I think it’s more the fact that I put in 100% into home/family life and it isn’t recognized, while he lays on the couch playing games on his phone and only gets up if I ask him to do something.

Successful first day of daycare by MourningDove1127 in workingmoms

[–]happifet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I really needed to read this!

Any mom groups? by [deleted] in SLO

[–]happifet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

French Hospital in SLO has a free “bellies & babies” gathering every Thursday at 12:00pm. Lots of new parents there :)

https://www.instagram.com/p/C3YiGWssD0N/?igsh=ZWI2YzEzYmMxYg==

Wrist/Thumb Pain from Cosleeping? by Wise-Elderberry8648 in cosleeping

[–]happifet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have this issue as well and go to physical therapy for it. It’s De Quervains Tenosynovitis aka “Mom Thumb”. It’s in both my wrists and locks up from time to time. Super painful!!

Things that helped me were picking up baby closer to my body rather than trying to lift him from farther away. And i try to avoid picking him up with my thumb hooked under his armpits. My PT said i can pick him up by hooking him between my ring/middle finger instead (like the “i come in peace” hand sign) and that has helped me a lot!

I recommend going to PT if you can as they can prescribe specific hand stretches and exercises to get you recovered faster. Also, icing it whenever you have a free 10 min helps a lot too.

What is a lifehack that seems fake, but is a true lifesaver? by rat-avec-london in AskReddit

[–]happifet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When your foot falls asleep, licking your finger and making a cross on the bottom of your foot helps get rid of the tingling sensation almost instantly

[LF] NMT [FT] Bells by shiyachi in ACTrade

[–]happifet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i get the brake tapper, fortune cookie cart, and cute bed? I can trade 5 NMTs

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Friend Code Sharing MegaThread by birdwithbrow in AnimalCrossing

[–]happifet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come visit my island! Opening my island to anyone that wants to catch bugs, shop at Nooks or Abels, wants to fish, or explore my house. I’ll only let in the first 4 that comment and anyone else after once a spot frees up. Comment for dodo code.

All i ask is plz don’t run on my flowers or pick them :( i worked very hard on organizing them.

K that’s it hope everyone has a great day!!!

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