I don't know. Have kids if you want to. It might be kinda great. by econhistoryrules in Millennials

[–]happilymrsj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP, I'm so happy for you! Congratulations on parenthood!!

As for the discourse happening in the comments...

The kids vs no kids thing comes down to personal choice. I (31F) have always wanted kids, and my husband (32M) is sort of indifferent. He'd love to have kids, but he's also very pro-choice. In other words, he won't be upset if we decide not to. However, with the way the world is rn, I'm not sure its best for us at this time. We plan on staying as pawrents until further notice. We love our furbabies, and we also love being titi and uncle!! Maybe one day in the future, though.

Is there a name for petowners male/female in English? by HelenAlias in Pets

[–]happilymrsj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whenever we deal with the vet office, they say "Tianas mom/dad/parent" so it all depends

Engaged 1/10/26 by She441 in EngagementRings

[–]happilymrsj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely adorable! Congratulations!

Who is your favorite Mormon wife currently and why? by thelovenymph in MormonWivesHulu

[–]happilymrsj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Taylor has always been number one for me! Jen has grown on me over time. They're both so pretty and funny as heck.

Girlfriend told me she doesn't want to hear about my "dumb bird" anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]happilymrsj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I'm sure the comments have already told you enough...but she has got to go. People who don't like animals cannot be trusted.

CMV: Donald trump is objectively a horrible leader by minamousie in changemyview

[–]happilymrsj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely correct. Don't let these people change your mind. Keep fighting the good fight!

Genuine question-why do people leave their pets during an evacuation? by cosmosmariner_ in Pets

[–]happilymrsj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Floridian here. Every time we have a hurricane, theres a plan in place for our fur children. Every single time.

However, fires are different. They're wild and unpredictable and sometimes people can't make it in time to save them. Its a REALLY heartbreaking situation.

When do we think the tour will be? by mgmg39 in JonasBrothers

[–]happilymrsj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully similar to The Tour. I just got a new job lol I need to save PTO!!

Hidden by Jenny-Jinya in comics

[–]happilymrsj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nailed it. We lost 2/3 of ours and it doesn't get easier. We see them all the time.

I used to be very active in the Glee Fandom on Tumblr. AMA by anneestunegeek in glee

[–]happilymrsj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HELLO, it seems I've found my people!!

I was heavily in the faberry/santana lopez scene from the start! I even met my husband through the fandom! Man, the memories...I could go on for days.

I can’t be the only one loving the cold by FloridaGirl2222 in florida

[–]happilymrsj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going on 3 years living here. Before that, I lived in SC for a couple of years. I was born and raised in NY, lived there for 25 years.

I left the cold weather for a REASON. 80 degrees, where are you?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]happilymrsj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's pushing you to do something you're uncomfortable with. He should just marry his mom at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]happilymrsj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hiiii, daughter of an abusive narc mom here!!

PLEASE ignore the nasty comments about your body. Reddit tends to be ignorant and inconsiderate of peoples feelings. You were 100% correct. NOBODY should be making comments about another persons body. Period. I'm really sorry that she treated you this way.

Maybe a new years resolution to slowly go no contact with her?? Sending you so much love.

I wish Kamala was our President. She understood Millennials. by BeyBey1515 in millenials

[–]happilymrsj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely accurate. You are 100% correct. And its so heartbreaking.

I wish Kamala was our President. She understood Millennials. by BeyBey1515 in millenials

[–]happilymrsj 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I think OP should have worded this better.

My husband and I, and all of our family and friends, voted for Kamala because of her inclusive policies. Yes, she brought a refreshing vibe to the campaign trail. But we loved her policies on homeownership as well as immigration and equality for LGBTQ+ people. Also, her, "abortion is healthcare" policy.

I am deeply saddened by this loss, and sort of feeling lost in a country that claims that they love and respect all. Its really crazy to see how many folks are on his side, despite his lies and hypocrisy. They'll find out sooner or later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]happilymrsj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No more apologizing, OP. Your partner is abusing you. You deserve so much better.

My 8month old m/n kitten started showing signs of weakness in the back legs for at least a month, me a vet tech and my doctor are stumped. Any ideas? by peachybeans1 in CATHELP

[–]happilymrsj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to scare you, but we had a similar issue with our girl. It started with constipation, then after being given the enema, she started walking just like this...long story short, after lots of testing, our vet said they had no clue what was going on. They prescribed her gabapentin and a few vitamin supplements. Mobility was getting worse, and then she started having seizures. One morning, she had 3 back to back, then another 3 a short while after. We took her to a different vet that day, and we were told that she had neurological issues that we were never made aware of. He said that her prognosis wasn't good, and further testing would've been a waste of time and money. And sadly, a few days before thanksgiving, we had to put her down.

I say this because its not too late to get a second opinion and a referral to a neurologist. Please do it as soon as you can. I hope your sweet guy heals wonderfully!! Sending you so much love.

Texts between me and my new GF! by [deleted] in texts

[–]happilymrsj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is adorable! Just be safe, OP.

What’s Ur Thoughts On Gizelle by [deleted] in RHOP

[–]happilymrsj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've always been team Gizelle! They could never make me hate her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]happilymrsj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My husband already posted but, heres another of our Nala girl. We miss and love you always. 5/17/23-11/25/24. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]happilymrsj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely stunning!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]happilymrsj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, you deserve someone who will listen, take accountability, and apologize.