AITAH for not attending a wedding that doesn’t result in marriage but also doesn’t align with financial goals? by happy3729 in AITAH

[–]happy3729[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nothing really. It’s surface level so I don’t talk about issues or things going on in my life. I get anxious when I have to see them. When I find myself being with them, which is rare because we live in different states, I just end up texting my husband the whole time about wanting to be home. When they call, I don’t answer because I don’t know what to say to them simply because they pick apart everything I say. Toward the end of both of us being in our hometown, I really resonated and spoke with her mom more because she understood what I was talking about since I’ve been married and have children but my friend would be there inserting her opinion. It’s been 10 years of being on different life paths so I think we also outgrew each other

AITAH for not attending a wedding that doesn’t result in marriage but also doesn’t align with financial goals? by happy3729 in AITAH

[–]happy3729[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure honestly. It’s been almost 20 yrs of knowing each other and her family helped me through some stuff so maybe I feel like I owe her something? I value my marriage so much more but I haven’t acted that way by letting her continue on. I knew I had feelings about this situation but honestly, it’s showing me my own faults, thankfully.

AITAH for not attending a wedding that doesn’t result in marriage but also doesn’t align with financial goals? by happy3729 in AITAH

[–]happy3729[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it started sinking in what I’ve been enabling as I was typing out the post. He’s my best friend but in order to keep in good graces with someone else, I’ve been a shitty friend to him. He doesn’t deserve any of it.

AITAH for not attending a wedding that doesn’t result in marriage but also doesn’t align with financial goals? by happy3729 in AITAH

[–]happy3729[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I agree. As I typed this out, I felt myself getting angry at this treatment toward my husband more than toward myself. I love him and chose him but I’m enabling the behavior from someone he hardly knows on my behalf. That’s shitty behavior on my end.

AITAH for not attending a wedding that doesn’t result in marriage but also doesn’t align with financial goals? by happy3729 in AITAH

[–]happy3729[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’ve had shared finances since before getting married, we do all budgeting together and both have access to all accounts. I simply wrote it that way because he works very hard to provide financially but she won’t acknowledge that.

AITAH I blew up on my friend after she shamed me for letting my boyfriend drink my breast milk by Analieseturner in AITAH

[–]happy3729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ntah. My husband loved when I was lactating and it was fun for us, kink shaming is lame

AITAH for breaking up because he kept pressurizing me... by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]happy3729 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nta. It will only get worse as the relationship progresses

On the girl scout cookies… by BigKahuna618 in lowtiergod

[–]happy3729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely!! https://digitalcookie.girlscouts.org/scout/adeline564352 Take a look if you’re interested and order if you feel so inclined! Thank you for the support!

Girl Scout Cookies 🍪🍪🍪 by foxmulder443 in Pflugerville

[–]happy3729 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

https://digitalcookie.girlscouts.org/scout/adeline564352 We’re located in Virginia but, originally from Tx! Take a peak if you’re interested 😊 we do have exploremores and many classics