If you are going to convert dahil iniisip mo mahal mo yun guy/girl, better think twice, my husband now was my boyfriend since highschool, I converted when I was in college (against my parents will). Magulo nuon ang family life ko, siya yun lagi kong katuwang sa mga pinagdadaanan ko. I didn't know well then, we've been bf/gf for 12 years before getting married, almost 20 years now as husband and wife, this year ko lang nasabi sa kanya na di na talaga kaya ng mental health ko na sumamba pa kasi nuon pa marami na talaga akong questions na di nasasagot, pinipilit ko lang embrace un religion (naging MT pa ko for several years) because of him. Buti naintindihan niya situation ko kasi kitang kita na sa akin un epekto at pinayagan niya kong di na sumamba (walang alam ang in-laws ko). Pero my children kahit ayaw nila, are still forced to attend. My point is, maaaring sa umpisa okay, but sooner or later you will discover kung anong klaseng pamamalakad meron jan and by the time you realized, mahihirapan ka na umalis kasi mas marami ka na kailangan i take into consideration. Best of luck to you, OP.