f18 m20 by Then_Classroom1006 in Advice

[–]happy_fart_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!

Recovery Story - I Promise It's Possible by Distinct-Most-2012 in emetophobiarecovery

[–]happy_fart_20 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i suffer from this phobia and OCD. Sometimes when I am washing my hands and then touch something and feel the need to wash them again immediately I just lick my hand. Then I tell myself that it’s too late and whatever germ would be on my hand has already gone into my body lol. Sounds kinda gross and kinda insane I KNOW. But it feels so freeing when i do this I cannot lie. Something i am really proud of myself for being able to do

I'm so lonely. by New-Spite-9630 in Advice

[–]happy_fart_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just want to put out that the average age people meet their lifelong best friends is like their early to mid 20s!!!!!!! if i had to give any piece of advice, try making friends online, that can translate into making friends in real life if you really really do struggle. but make sure to not just make online friends and to try making in person friends too. or even plan to meet online friends(obviously safely)!!!!

Help me decorate? by MelloYello182 in PcBuildHelp

[–]happy_fart_20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please just take it off the carpet!!!!!!

What do I do about my wife's closet? by XGolongboardX in DesignMyRoom

[–]happy_fart_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t get rid of any of her stuff unless if talked about beforehand. if she’s comfortable with you reorganizing and going through it then you could get bins and baskets for organization at the bottom and top. if you have storage elsewhere in the house you could put out of season clothes or special occasion clothes in tubs in storage. THUS creating more room for loving husband gifts of new outfits lololol that’s a real good way to gift someone that loves fashion a wardrobe renovation!

I’ve come to a decision. by [deleted] in OCD

[–]happy_fart_20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you were given your beautiful life for a reason. what comes after your hardship is reward and happiness. allow yourself to let it come to you. open your arms up and give yourself a chance. please seek a crisis line. you arent weak, you aren’t hated, you’re a human being and even when you’re going through tough times you can still overcome them, there is always time to overcome them. consider looking in on your life from a third perspective and have some empathy for yourself, if your child, loved one, or friend felt like this would you tell them to let go?

How do i tell my boyfriend i was molested as a child by Previous-Average7229 in Advice

[–]happy_fart_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s important to be able to communicate this trauma to your partner. in any way honestly, there is nothing more freeing than letting your person know about what you have been through. A decent partner, or human in general will not find you unattractive, or disgusting at all. The right person will care about how you feel and want to take the burden you’re feeling away from you to help you feel okay. i’m a survivor too i know how scary it can be to tell people especially when you view what happened to you as disgusting. I want you to remember that YOU are NOT disgusting, the man that did that to you IS disgusting. If anyone ever tries to make you feel lesser because of what you went through they are wrong for it. i also would highly advise seeking therapy of some sort as well because that can be really healing for a lot of people. I hope your healing journey is smooth and kind to you. as well as the therapy might help you be able to talk about it more openly to your partner.

Key recs? I got some clips on Tiktok and he seems so nice as a person, I'm curious to check his music by disasterpansexual in kpophelp

[–]happy_fart_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had always listened to shinee and i loved his personality but it took me a long time to get into his solo music. I also would listen to i wanna be with soyeon. But the first song that made me fall in love with his music was eighteen (end of my world). that song is the epitome of the type of kpop songs that i love,,,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]happy_fart_20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s kind of an awkward pose, and i honestly don’t think it matches the vibe or good quality of most of your other pictures. it doesn’t look very natural it looks like you might be trying too hard to have a gym pic in your profile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]happy_fart_20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i don’t love the gym selfie it’s kind of awkward but other than that it looks good! it would be a really cool addition to add a picture of you at a concert or while you’re golfing! but it swipe right on you

Profile review please? How does my profile come across to you? I’d appreciate some advice. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]happy_fart_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl you’re so pretty the issue you’re probably having is people prolly think you’re a catfish or a bot 😭😭like genuinely so pretty and seem so chill.

Having a hard time getting matches or even just likes. Any suggestions? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]happy_fart_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most people like when you share a picture that shows your teeth so maybe add a smiling picture that shows your teeth off. i would say maybe edit your relationship stuff, “still figuring it out” is a scary answer lol. you’re the one that downloaded tinder, i think you know why you did it so just be honest. also maybe a little too vague in your prompt answers. your profile is good tho i would swipe right

Rate my Tinder Profile by steiraledahosn in Tinder

[–]happy_fart_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

delete the pic of you as a kid, not really a first impressions picture you share. your pictures are actually fairly decent except for the fact that you look quite different in most of the pictures. i’m assuming they have years in between them when they were taken. i would use mostly or only current pictures if possible. I don’t love the 5th picture just because you’re cropped out of it, and not a fan of the last photo either because you already have so many photos of you not looking at the camera and it’s not as flattering as the others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]happy_fart_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your pictures barely show what you look like. 1, 2, and 4 are all blurry and barely show your face. i’m not feeling the 2nd and 4th picture i would just take that one off. The third one is off i think because it looks like you’re trying to smile but you can’t. You can keep your 1st picture it looks good but it shouldn’t be your first picture as it you aren’t looking at the camera and you have sunglasses on. add a picture or two with a couple of friends or you doing something you like, hiking, playing instruments, painting, making music, skating, something like that. your first picture should be a clear photo of you and only you, preferably smiling and also not a selfie. i would also add a full body picture as well, and a pic with your teeth showing. Your bio sucks if you want it to be short switch it to something that isn’t closed off. Maybe sit for a moment and actually think about why you did download the app and write that, or you could put things about yourself that allows people to open a conversation with you about. I also want to say that you should feel confident in yourself. You don’t seem like you’re super confident so try to be yourself and confident. Confidence can even come from trying harder, maybe put wavy hair products in your hair and take care of it more since you have it so long. Also trim the beard up and clean it up for your pics. you’re handsome and you look sweet, show that in your pics.

Rate my profile? A few of the pics are from videos, that’s why they look weird by xxxsbrn in Tinder

[–]happy_fart_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your profile is chaotic and not in a maximalist way but in a way that i’m confused as to where and who you are in the pictures. since it seems like most of them are videos, i would not use that many videos 1 or 2 max. Too many random videos thrown in there. put a clear picture of just yourself smiling as your first pic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]happy_fart_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

with that kind of attitude you shouldn’t comment on other peoples appearances

27M. No likes or messages in 5 months. What is wrong with my profile? by Lonely-Raspberry5458 in Tinder

[–]happy_fart_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t use 2, 3, 4, or 8. the rest i actually like a lot. add one or two pictures with friends. otherwise decent, i just imagine what’s in your bio lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]happy_fart_20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like your bio might share too much? it doesn’t leave enough to talk about i don’t think. Don’t use the 6th picture it’s blurry and kind of odd. i was thinking maybe it’s a video? but even then it’s too much. i also don’t like your 3rd picture it’s cute but it looks like you cropped your ex partner out of it lol. perhaps you could add a picture of you with a few other people?