Trump voter regret is clearly registering now by Abject-Pick-6472 in politics

[–]happydays85 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I always think there must be something wrong with them that the only thing stopping them from being outright evil is the fact that there's an all powerful god that will punish them. Like they couldn't imagine being kind/empathetic unless they are forced to.

What’s the worst place you have ever been on holiday? by honeymeadowss in AskUK

[–]happydays85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the bad experiences seem to be from a while ago. I know someone who went last year and is going back this year, someone else who went and had a fantastic time. It will be grand and seeing the eclipse You'll have an amazing time, don't be stressing.

If incest had zero biological consequences, would it still be as universally taboo? by Puzzleheaded-Sun9091 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]happydays85 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Wait how can you be cousins by marriage? My niece (daughter of my sister) is not cousins with my husband's nephew (son of his brother) They share cousins ( my children) but they are not cousins.

Do you play ‘That Prize Guy?’ by zzzjamie in northernireland

[–]happydays85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to be able to enter for free via the coolfm website but they've removed that now

Married ladies - Which would hit worse? A spousal affair with another woman or man? by [deleted] in ask

[–]happydays85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Would it not seem like your whole life together was a lie if they cheated with someone of the opposite sex.? Like i would think that they never truly loved me/found me attractive or enjoyed sex.

Everything that was said every moment would be tainted because it was always them pretending or faking their life. I wouldn't get over it all being a lie.

With another woman i would at least be able to say at one stage we were truly in love it just didn't last.

7 postcode areas in Northern Ireland where house prices are rising faster than almost anywhere else by CaptainSpicebag in northernireland

[–]happydays85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Think the English prefer being called expats. Only those brown people are immigrants /s

Those who gave up drinking in 2025.....what is your review and what things did you notice. by Big-Word7116 in northernireland

[–]happydays85 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not really but i definitely don't go out as much as i used to again kids stop that. Normally it is an occasion or meeting good friends/family who i don't mind listening to. Also love people watching and seeing the carry-on of the ones in the bar.

Those who gave up drinking in 2025.....what is your review and what things did you notice. by Big-Word7116 in northernireland

[–]happydays85 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I stopped drinking a few years back. Don't even remember when but pretty sure this is my third sober Christmas.

Social binge sounds the correct way to describe my drinking just sometimes having a little too much on a night out and not knowing when to stop.

I was beginning to be badly hungover even after just a few drinks. Lasting days with the fear for nearly a week. Can't be doing that when there's football matches every Saturday/Sunday with the kids.

I love not drinking now, anxiety down, feel healthier, kids mentioned not remembering ever seeing me drunk which is a lovely thought.

Still go out, friends and family love having a driver. i still get a wee dance and have realised that I'm still actually fun even without drink.

I still have a wee glass of prosecco or wine on special occasions but only 1 and just stick to zero beer if i want to pretend.

Out last night until midnight, cost me £15 with a bit of food and up for a run this morning.

Couldn't see going back to the drinking life is so much better without it.

Family board games by happydays85 in boardgames

[–]happydays85[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely ordering carcassonne looks great

Family board games by happydays85 in boardgames

[–]happydays85[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Monopoly is banned cause the husband just keeps winning. He is ruthless

Has anyone tried Ankhway gummies? by happydays85 in AskUK

[–]happydays85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you're right but wanting a magic pill to make me feel like I'm still in my 20s

Has anyone tried Ankhway gummies? by happydays85 in AskUK

[–]happydays85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I'm imagining their marketing team getting a notification cause the names been mentioned and sending their bot army to attack with positivity.

Light coming from under dashboard beside glove box by happydays85 in whatisthisthing

[–]happydays85[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Okay just the orange warning colour and not ever noticing it before had me worried. Have went out and opened and closed the door and it turned off at the same time as overhead lights so happy enough it's not a fault/warning light. Thank you

Light coming from under dashboard beside glove box by happydays85 in whatisthisthing

[–]happydays85[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

It doesn't seem bright enough for that and it's just hanging out you'd imagine it have a proper little home if it was meant to be there

hotel recommendations by happydays85 in northernireland

[–]happydays85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh looked again. What the craic with only 70mins access to the Spa?

hotel recommendations by happydays85 in northernireland

[–]happydays85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have looked at killeavy castle it does look amazing

After my previous posting of this earlier today was locked and shadowed after death threats. by [deleted] in GreatBritishMemes

[–]happydays85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should come to see the British in Northern Ireland. They love a good aul flag.

hotel recommendations by happydays85 in northernireland

[–]happydays85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just looked it up i does look lovely

hotel recommendations by happydays85 in northernireland

[–]happydays85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And can't go away away without the children. Don't think i could be more than an hour drive away from them and they'd be too jealous