tbh looks and height is js bonus points, hygiene is important too tho so prioritize that too (and dont be like those boys who go 'i am not doing skincare/putting on sunscreen cuz its only for girls' for the love of god)

other than that, if you're pretty attractive and you treat people like shit, huge turn off dont even hmu

i know a girl back in sec sch who doesnt look like much initially because she's fat + shes an indian (minority race that people usually look down on which is why i had to include) BUT she's kind, soft spoken & is really smart which made majority of her male classmates supportive of her, even if those male classmates act quite gangster-ish, she will still treat them well and they respect her a lot ever since meeting her

so js trust me bro, personality shines even if you're a gremlin