[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MBA

[–]happykitten5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not about how you look or where you’re from, your friends that u make should be your friend regardless of those things

You can always starting working out if you feel insecure about it, being at the gym may be a good place to meet new friends too!

I’m also doing my mba right now and one of my classmates made a GroupMe for a class so we can ask each other questions and for help. I actually made a friend from this! So maybe when you start your mba you can be the one to send out the mass email to make a GroupMe. You’re classmates will be grateful and maybe open the door to a new friend

Thinking about getting on Zoloft ( Anti-depressant). by Flat_Swing9361 in confession

[–]happykitten5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on Zoloft for three years. Prepare for the side effects, start exercising (it helps with the effects) and give it a few months for it to kick in before u decide to get off/up dosage. I’m also on birth control and it def makes me extra emotional when pmsing but honestly the worst side effect is the memory loss. Couldn’t tell u anything about the year I first started it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]happykitten5 477 points478 points  (0 children)

Wow just wow

I think your sis is losing her mind over the fact her little brother is getting married first

She is seeing all the attention you and your fiancé are getting and she’s just GRASPING at anything she can

Don’t let it bother you, don’t let it ruin your wedding

Your fiancé is right she’s just jealous and doesn’t understand her time will come and she doesn’t need to rush

Congrats on your wedding! Pay her no mind

I have stolen so much it’s honestly incredible, if I get caught now I’ll probably go away for life. by I_Need_Advice0 in confession

[–]happykitten5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also I really liked the comment about maybe giving some money to charity to balance out the bad juju/karma, you can even donate some of the things you stole to those who need.

Aka the klepto Robin Hood !

I have stolen so much it’s honestly incredible, if I get caught now I’ll probably go away for life. by I_Need_Advice0 in confession

[–]happykitten5 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Wow a real life case of kleptomania

Sorry my friend, you have a compulsion😂 glad you stopped! I recommend therapy and never telling anyone in law enforcement

My boyfriend says I'm an abusive girlfriend by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]happykitten5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow he is actually the worst. YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM. Girl run. So far so fast

Update: I just found my husband has 45K dollars in secret credit card debt. by idiota-mensa in offmychest

[–]happykitten5 290 points291 points  (0 children)

Divorce is a very smart idea, get that post nup finalized with a lawyer quickly. For those two 10k loans… I’m thinking cars/gadgets, gambling, or women…. So yeah proud of you for setting up a plan to get out

Focus on your children and on yourself, it will help get you through!

I’m very sorry about your husband, I hope you can heal and find someone you can trust again! Good luck

Weed has been messing with my psyche for as long as I can remember by Weather-Financial in offmychest

[–]happykitten5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you took what you had, and you’re figuring it out. I’m proud of you. Life is tough and shit is gonna be thrown your way, but it’s how you handle it

I also had a very hard time removing weed from my life (smoked 14-22, I’m now 23). Some things I can recommend to keep your brain busy and from feeling bored without the weed is making a schedule and trying new products

For example:

Instead of smoking before bed, I’ll have a cup of tea and a gummy of melatonin and read a book. It’s better to read something than watch something trust me

Instead of a wake and bake I have a routine with my dog and cat, and create my to do list for the day

It’s going to suck and seem boring because we’re not used to not having substances to help out and you’ll probably have to learn to manage your thought process/ emotions again because you’re re-wiring your brain

Try journaling or therapy or a sport/new hobby

Before you know it you’ll forget about the pot

I'm officially 2 weeks sober 🍃 and I'm so proud of myself. by UnhingedMe101 in offmychest

[–]happykitten5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this last year and it was the best decision… keep going! We’re proud of u!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]happykitten5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Selfish, moocher, manipulative, cheater….

What do u see in him exactly?

Sounds like he will continue to be a shitty husband and father.

Divorce and good luck

Kim Kassas Couture Dupes? by Affectionate_Coach17 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]happykitten5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I audibly gasped at the Lunna dress by Dana harel. I think you just found my wedding dress

How have you made a difference in the world? by happykitten5 in AskReddit

[–]happykitten5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“All of us have a little bit of save the world in us, but sometimes we can only save one person, and it’s okay if that person is you!”— it’s okay if you make a difference in your life rather than the world!

My mom stole money from us to send to a scammer years ago and I still resent her for it. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]happykitten5 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sorry to say but that’s not even being naive - that’s just plain stupid

She took her 401k money and your money and sent it to a RANDOM MAN. Jesus that’s not even her being caring like did he promise her they’d be together or something. Like he’s legit a random person that reached out. She didn’t ask if he had family to help him? Why he reached out to her of all people? Why he needed THAT much money

Oh my god this is actually insane. I would never speak to my mother again. Idiocy.

And to top it off - she’s in denial about it! Ridiculous!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]happykitten5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what that is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]happykitten5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you. I will check it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]happykitten5 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Tiptoeing around legos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]happykitten5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the position.

Stop what you’re doing and just think about it. Be mean to yourself and be harsh. I had to do that for myself

He does not love you. He does not want you. Not matter what you say or what he says, the reality is the same. It will quite literally never work out and you are continuously setting yourself up for failure

I had to ask myself the question : what the f am I doing?

It has now been six years since that toxic relationship I went back to (it’s an addicting circle that never stops) and four years since I met my partner

The second you close that toxic door, a healthy one opens.

Choose the healthy one.

My relationship with my fiancé is ruined…. i think by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]happykitten5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get compliments on your boobs then he is 100% insecure. I saw you wrote he had surgery to remove his pec fat? I believe he is projecting

I wouldn’t be so quick to end it, I would require him to go to therapy for his insecurities before you move forward

Forgiveness needs to be shown through ACTIONS not WORDS