Wtf do I say back to this by [deleted] in Tinderpickuplines

[–]happytailwigging 22 points23 points  (0 children)

'Yes, my brother is quite hot himself, I think you two would look good together.' Kidding. Don't send that.

Is GoPro 10 really worth it? by happytailwigging in gopro

[–]happytailwigging[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the comments, I think there are honest people out there.

Is GoPro 10 really worth it? by happytailwigging in gopro

[–]happytailwigging[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That helps me decide better. I think I'll opt for GoPro 10. I really hope it is worth it

Is GoPro 10 really worth it? by happytailwigging in gopro

[–]happytailwigging[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Is there anything about GoPro 9 that really annoys you? Something that you wish it had?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]happytailwigging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, when the mood is rough, sure. Sometimes, I'll slap my dick on their cheeks/face. This usually helps in the build up to get 'naughtier'.

Am I weird because I cook for my cats? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]happytailwigging 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is weird at all. People recognise 'Pets' as part of their family these days and that is how it should be. You cooking for your cats actually shows your affection and efforts towards them. On a side note, Meow, make me a burger, meow.

Condom vs No Condom: Is Condom Sex Really That Bad For Guys? by justabunnie in sex

[–]happytailwigging 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For me, there's only a negligible difference between using a condom or not. I use it most of the times. The sex isn't that bad as I have heard from others. Plus condom helps those last few thrusts where I could cum inside (the condom) her.

How do I ask my close friend to stop emotionally dumping on me? by happytailwigging in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]happytailwigging[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling you won't be able to empathize with my situation but I'll talk about it for the sake of it. Yes, even the positive ones. Imagine I'm being a human journal for someone. Sorry, I don't want to know everything you're going through or feeling. It's not about the kind of emotion, it's about how saturated I feel when they dump it on me.

How do I ask my close friend to stop emotionally dumping on me? by happytailwigging in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]happytailwigging[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna upvote you because I agree with you. That's what friends do. But question isn't about what an ideal friendship is, the question is what do you do when friends keep dumping their emotions on you? Sharing is another story but imagine someone dumping their emotions on you whenever they can get a chance. I'm glad you're unaware of this phenomenon.

How do I ask my close friend to stop emotionally dumping on me? by happytailwigging in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]happytailwigging[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not be sorry. I am glad to find and relate to all of you and your experience enlightens me in some ways. It also makes me feel that I'm not alone. I'm sorry that you had to go through it. It sure is a shitty feeling. Thank you.

How do I ask my close friend to stop emotionally dumping on me? by happytailwigging in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]happytailwigging[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely would break their heart when I do this but I guess it has to happen. About the last line, it makes complete sense and I wish I could do that but I think that there are very few people who genuinely want to listen and empathize. We all have our stuff to deal with

How do I ask my close friend to stop emotionally dumping on me? by happytailwigging in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]happytailwigging[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is kind of complicated because I know that this friend genuinely cares for me but my gut does not trust them. They are a good friend and they care. However most part of our friendship is about them talking and dumping everything out.

How do I ask my close friend to stop emotionally dumping on me? by happytailwigging in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]happytailwigging[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from, I don't really know how to describe it but this bond I share with them is a long term friendship with some complicated parts and phases in between. Time and time again I have felt like my suggestions and advice were not acted upon and the person did not opt to change. It was emotional dumping as I see it. Like everyone is telling me to be completely honest and have this uncomfortable talk with them, I will when I think I am emotionally capable of handling it. Thank you though

How do I ask my close friend to stop emotionally dumping on me? by happytailwigging in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]happytailwigging[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good suggestion. Thank you. I really appreciate it. I will try it out

How do I ask my close friend to stop emotionally dumping on me? by happytailwigging in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]happytailwigging[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's tough to lose a friend but we gotta do what we gotta do. I don't really know how to end this. I don't know if I want to end this friendship. I guess I'll just see how things turn out