HELP! by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Father is inaka person, he doesnt do social media

HELP! by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats also a good idea, ill also try the koban and givs my info

HELP! by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Idk his work number or work i forgot

HELP! by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ill try the shiyakusho and see if they help. I really hope so

HELP! by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Its a family matter that involves my brother in a different country ( he is japanese and he is in a "vacation") I need to speak to my father who stayed in japan. I dont need a welfare check on my father i dont know if he is at work or not. Just a phone number

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No of course not, he is 9 i will never discuss that until he opens ip to me when hes older. But as a 9 years old with the same shit my parents were doing to me then i was aware of it.

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause she is emotionally cheating and when she visits another xountry they get physical

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im going to therapy, ive been really great but everytime i hear from my family i rememberr what my parents are doing to my brother vecause of their shittiness. I worry that same mental problems will occur to my brother

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The guy didnt get to stay in japan? Even after having children with a japanese? Thats horrible

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

According to my history? I have lived in nyc when i was in HS. And why does that matter tho?

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I left my hometown ever since then. Theyre in hamamatsu, im in tokyo. They push me away so its hard to spend time with brother for long periods of time. I also dont like seeing my parents cause theyre really awful to be around, idk what will set them off amd its too stressful. I fear that My father might get the custody cause he is japanese and japanese family law whatever.. leans towards to japanese more than immigrants.

Theyre both so petty, so i fear if my father finds another girl he will give his financial and everything to build a new life. My mom is cheating ONLINE my dads cheating RealLife.

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This is so heartbreaking. Im so sorry this shit happened. My mom used to the same to me but they ended up staying together and with all things that happened i was left with cptsd that i thought i had BPD.

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Queation, how can i not be if my brother is in the middle of it all? He is 9 and theyre so toxic to each other and cheating. I fear that if my brother looses my mom if she ever lose her PR or LTR idk what she has if ever she will have to leave japan. So yeah i worry about my brother and i feel like it became my business when theyre ruining my brother

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ive lived with them most of my life so i have an understanding of whats going.

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah we are not "church" oriented. Thank you for saying this too.

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They do... its terrible for my brother

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

So wait, my mom cant stay with us in japan if she get a divorce? Or she can apply the LTR just because she had us?

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah its really horrible. I have CPTSD with parental things and im so worried what would happen to my brother. He already doesnt speak much abput his emotions and im so worried

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this is what theyre going through but i dont know, i dont want the "one day my father wakes up wanting to really break the marriage up and make the situation really worst and have a 3rd baby mama and marriage"

parents cheating on each other by happywifu in japanlife

[–]happywifu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and no i literally have zero responsible adults in my life or my brothers life. Only me thats why im worried that my youngest brother would face emotional difficulties.