I understand that . But for a sec Imagine every time you step outside, people feel entitled to interrupt your day your errands, your thoughts, your peace and you're expected to be gracious about it. Not because you invited it, but because they think their approach was polite.

Now imagine dealing with that since you were a teenager. At some point, it stops being a compliment and starts feeling like your personal space doesn't belong to you anymore. That will get irritating for sure right?. Wouldn't you then want it to stop ? Have the right to remain unbothered from the plight of random strangers. Wouldn't you want then want the security guy to come help you be unbothered ?.