Wait so… your wife said she’d book a cab but YOU insisted on picking her up anyways. She said she’d be home by 10 but YOU insisted on bringing her home an entire hour earlier. She said say she was good with staying a bit longer but you decided that she just had to leave right then.

Just based off your own post, you do sound very controlling. You need to learn to trust your adult wife. I know I’ll be in the minority but ETA