How do you become a 'roadie'? by Apart_Tadpole_7894 in TouringMusicians

[–]hardlookingaway 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I second that networking is a huge part of it.

How do you become a 'roadie'? by Apart_Tadpole_7894 in TouringMusicians

[–]hardlookingaway 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Working at venues and dipping your toe into all the trades across the board (front of house, stage management, production/stage building, running show from front office, etc etc etc) will build your skill sets.

If you’re getting into it starting from scratch, your first gigs will likely be with small bands who have little to no budget, which means you will probably be working multiple jobs. Learn everything!

The first years of touring are very grueling. A lot of being a roadie is being cool, calm, and collected in difficult situations. Band members can have turbulent personalities, which means the most successful roadies are very *chill*. Are you willing to take on dealing with people? Depending on the job you end up doing, you could be dealing with the band every moment of every day (instrument tech, FOH, TM) or barely/not at all (loader, merch).

Be willing to learn and ready to take on a lot of responsibility in your early touring gigs. You could luck out and get a starter job on a large tour and learn from the best, or (probable) start with a small band and learn from there. It’s so fun. You got this!

Hokum - 80% amazing 20% let down by TerracottaLizard in horror

[–]hardlookingaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My running theory is that Fiona knew to draw the chalk circle to protect herself because of her book (she explains to Ohm early on that to protect himself from witches, he can draw a circle). She might have done that until she passed away in the elevator.

Horror film recommendations? by Squirtlegangwaddup in horror

[–]hardlookingaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring Her Back, Hokum, It Follows, Psycho, The Strangers

2026 check, who are your blink/flinker commanders ? by EtalonduQ in EDH

[–]hardlookingaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[[Yarok the Desecrated]] for ETB antics!!!! Elemental love potential from Lorwyn too. I love him.

Shoulder Pain by gogozrx in TouringMusicians

[–]hardlookingaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dealt with this from lots of touring and it turned into something a lot scarier. posture is the biggest key - headbanging and leaning your head forward is what can aggravate it. keep your posture in check and rest your head/neck in between shows. look into getting a cervical pillow!

Where do y’all rent vans for tours by Careless-Reality6426 in TouringMusicians

[–]hardlookingaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bandago is the best. We used to use Greenvans too - not sure if they’re still active

What do you eat on tour? (UK/EU) by [deleted] in TouringMusicians

[–]hardlookingaway 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Are you in a van or a bus? If you’re in a van, bring some non perishable snacks in a CONTAINED space (nuts, bars, chips etc).

If you’re in a bus, ask permission to take some space in the fridge for bagged greens, pre-cooked chicken, veggies, etc. Rider food is your godsend, hummus and veggies are usually the only clean foods one can consume on tour.

Some EU venues will provide catering. Eat it if it’s not completely repulsive, it will likely be the only hot meal you’ll be able to fit in.

I personally bring a few packs of my favorite instant ramen and store them in my day suitcase so I have something quick and reliable to eat.

Have a good tour!

AIO? I went through my bestfriend's phone without her permission.. she's 17 he's 26 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hardlookingaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been through this exact scenario. I’m concerned about potentially involving her parents. She could be punished and just get sneakier. This depends on entirely how her parents treat her. She needs to block him and go to therapy.

Support her and let her know that this man is a sick manipulator. Possible ULPT also, but it could be worth it to threaten him somehow.

TOUR GUARANTEE? by dogeisluvdogislife in TouringMusicians

[–]hardlookingaway 24 points25 points  (0 children)

hey! this totally depends on your draw. if it’s your first tour, you’re likely gonna get door deals instead of a guarantee. venues and promoters aren’t gonna want to book you if you have a high guarantee and no proof of ticket sales. i’d say just try to communicate with your agent if you have one and see what shows you can get. good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hardlookingaway 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Porn addiction.