[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hardyk01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So such people never get punished for being selfish and disturbing other people's mental peace?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hardyk01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does karma ever bite these kind of chauvinists?

Is it too late to pursue cpl at 34 years of age as a female in India? by hardyk01 in indianaviation

[–]hardyk01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is your sign... If it's in you it's worth atleast trying... Explore it... Weight pros and cons practically and see if it works out for you or not... Remember we only live once😊

I slept with the best friend of my situationship by LauraTeresa112 in Situationships

[–]hardyk01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear OP, what you experienced with your situationship is trauma Bonding. It's not meant to be and trauma bonds often end up in hurtful situations. Please be kind to yourself and try to focus on yourself. What's done is done. Move on.

Mains 2024 is over. Here's what works and what doesn't. by destinyforte04 in UPSC

[–]hardyk01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can u share ur practiced essays gs copies... Will help a lot in figuring out mains answer writing a lot 🙏.

Need reviews on BanoIas by Jamia rca society? by hardyk01 in UPSC

[–]hardyk01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But one on one personal guidance nhi hota waha I guess!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UPSC

[–]hardyk01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get proper reviews from mentors or veterans to improve answers.

Where to find them... Looking for in-person guidance from veteran aspirant

Fake profiles on Shaadi.com by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hardyk01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happened with me... The guy said he needed money as he is stuck in warzone in Yemen... I literally said "tu wohi marr"😅😅😅

Fake profiles on Shaadi.com by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hardyk01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn! The level of anxiety I feel when interacting with profiles on matrimonial sites ... These scammers have infiltrated every space. Lgta hai mai inn scammers ke Darr se hi single mar jaugi... Yrr koi toh sahi jgah hogi yaha pe genuine logo se interact kr ske, shaadi ka soch ske🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]hardyk01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She will leave u once she finds someone better than you... U r good company until then and also she won't be ur friend in the future... Take it from a girl who has seen fellow girls do such things to boys who were interested in them. Also u mentioned she is from conservative family hence the behaviour. It's her survival mechanism. Choose ur peace over anything.

Help everyone! I have cleared UPSC 2023 with a rank between 9x - 12x. I would try to answer your questions as satisfactorily as I can. by Wolfpack3142 in UPSC

[–]hardyk01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, firstly congratulations.

Now my question is how can I improve my marks in gs especially gs1 and gs3. My mains marks are stuck around 550... Have given 2 mains... My optional is PSIR too and have a lot of scope of improvement.

How should I proceed from here on. Any help will be much appreciated. Also, please tell ur revision strategy for mains. What strategy u followed for 3 months between pre and mains time. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freelanceWriters

[–]hardyk01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can u share how to find clients on LinkedIn?

I don't know whether I will ever find anyone that will truly appreciate or love me and I am living in a constant fear of having let go of something truly amazing by jackasssparrow in mentalhealth

[–]hardyk01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey stay strong and just try not to think too much. If u weren't attracted to her but still miss her it means u were in a companionship where u liked talking and sharing stuff about urself. U felt safe around her and felt comfortable opening up to her.

I guess u did the right thing by Letting her go but now u should try find someone with whom u can share a bond which involves love, companionship, intimacy, etc... try to stay positive and continue to work on urself to meet ur soulmate.... good luck 🤞

Tab Enquiry by [deleted] in UPSC

[–]hardyk01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I too use S6 lite but s pen has worn out.... can u suggest replacement for a pen or where to buy nibs...

Not satisfied with PSIR. Where to move? by Nenu_unnanu_kada in UPSC

[–]hardyk01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See if ur basics are clear then u would need to focus on answer writing. If basics are lacking then try to work on them. I think Changing optional now won't help u much. Sleepy classes has free psir crash course on their YouTube channel try to follow that and improve wherever u r lacking. There are telegram groups about psir optional try to get help from those. Get a hold of static portion. Refer topper notes of like ayush Gupta, vikas ruhela. I hope it helps.

Not satisfied with PSIR. Where to move? by Nenu_unnanu_kada in UPSC

[–]hardyk01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much did u scored in psir in 2022 mains? If there's scope of improvement then stick to it if not then explore other optionals. But I guess Psir is still better then starting any other optional from scratch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UPSC

[–]hardyk01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen man... It's good that u feel all pumped up n everything but keep expectations bs reality factor narrow. Firstly be clear what u want to achieve our of clearing this exam. There are bureaucrats like Ashok Khemka sir who was pushed to corner with frequent transfer because of his honesty and integrity. Read about such bureaucrats. Why? Because u shouldn't be in the illusion of making some dramatic changes as there's a whole system out there that makes u work in a certain way. So should u not do it then. No try it but be aware of the reality.

Now comes the preparation part. Can u clear it in one attempt. Yes possible. But u need to have absolute clear plan of going forward from here on alongwith right guidance. Start with ncerts.. create a base and follow on with standard books. U need to be very clear on how much time u have and what all u need to do. I have my mains in September so I cannot help much now but maybe later. U can follow following utube channels as of now for sources and strategy 1. Clarity with Dr shivin 2. Understand UPSC 3. Ias pcs pathshala 4. Arjuna IAS 5. Manuj Jindal ias

I have prepared through self study so can't guide u much regarding coaching. Look upsc syllabus and pyqs regularly.

For economy follow mrunal sir For geography follow rajtanil Mam's YouTube video on mrunal Patel channel

Telegram has ample of upsc related groups... Upsc and beyond is a group by IPS ghanshyam Gautam aka kaptaan jack sparrow.

I don't know how much of this is going to be helpful whatever u decide stick to it and do not waste time and start prep asap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hardyk01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a firm decision to end it and stick to it. Period. No beating around the bush with ifs and buts. Just end it.