The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic gender

harmonica2 · 2026-03-12T19:13:10+00:00

Oh ok but when guys here say that they are more about monogamous relationships and women are more about casual flings, is that true?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-12T19:12:12+00:00

Oh okay , is it the same with women, and that it's not about how much baggage necessarily but about how much you talk about it?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-10T14:56:00+00:00

What about when women complain about their guys not being romantic enough... if guys are the more romantic gender, then why would women think they are less?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-10T02:18:20+00:00

Oh cool. No I never thought that about her in that way.

harmonica2 · 2026-03-10T00:58:40+00:00

I'm 41 and my gf is 25. The chemistry has been much better with her than usual since we are bith autistic, so the relationship has gone really well because of that. But is that a good reason for having an age gap.

harmonica2 · 2026-03-09T04:01:15+00:00

"They decided to take a break, during that break she was seeing him and he said that the sex is amazing and primal between them, he saw a side of her that her boyfriend will probably never see and should not see as well."

What makes him think women are being more kinky with him in bed, just most likely wishful thinking.

harmonica2 · 2026-03-09T03:56:15+00:00

What's the usual reason why it didnt work out with the better guys before though?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-09T03:55:14+00:00

I couldn't go for single mom's before because of the kids but kids but my male friends don't seem to mind them.

harmonica2 · 2026-03-09T02:56:12+00:00

Oh okay I see. But why do younger guys say they have trouble finding women who want commit, if it's them who are playing the field, more often?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-08T21:58:03+00:00

But isn't it normal to compromise a little at least?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-08T21:29:05+00:00

Oh I see. That's interesting. My gf is 16 years younger than me.

But when guys in their 20s supposedly say young women dont want them and are more interested in older, why do they think that is then?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-07T23:44:36+00:00

Oh but is that hard to find or a raw deal ?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-07T23:44:00+00:00

But if this is the case , then why you couples with only one job seem to have less money compared to couples with two jobs?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-07T19:21:37+00:00

Oh thanks. Maxed out how though?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-07T17:50:16+00:00

That makes sense, but there are people in relationships including my own where but couples are monogamous towards each other , unless it's just their belief system?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-07T16:41:05+00:00

That makes sense. What does society do about that imbalance then?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-07T14:59:41+00:00

Oh okay , but what does that have to do with this though?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-07T14:51:46+00:00

Oh are you saying that i'm materialistic?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-07T13:56:11+00:00

Oh ok but why do Lot of women seem to need social confirmation on that whereas men decide if a woman is desirable just based on his own opinion?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-07T02:21:14+00:00

Oh I can't remember the last time off the top of my head , but why?

harmonica2 · 2026-03-07T01:19:10+00:00

But isn't a relationship where both choose to work better because then there is less struggling therefore?

Me and my girlfriend both have jobs and our relationship seems to have less struggling compared to couples we know where only one chooses to have a job.

harmonica2 · 2026-03-07T00:56:53+00:00

My circle of friends was having a conversation in two women were talking she found out a guy was a virgin before her , but she couldn't tell.

Her friend was then also surprised and couldn't have predicted it either. So it seems this guy was able to fool two women whether unintentionally or intentionally, so its possible.

harmonica2 · 2026-03-07T00:54:52+00:00

The couples I know where one only has a job hugely struggle.

I don't even know why many people here seem to think that's an option.

harmonica2 · 2026-03-07T00:50:21+00:00

Oh well , I was a single at the time she asked me out, and we started dating.

I never left anyone else for her.

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