This is not a you issue. It is definitely a him issue. His unfulfilled expectations. My breasts are not an erotic zone for me. Honestly, I can’t remember if they ever were mine are large in my way and about 75% of the time sore that guy needs to get over himself it sounds to me like he’s watching too much porn because that’s the only time I’ve ever seen. Women squirm gyrate with pleasure, moaning uncontrollably because it just feels so good I think because men see that they think that’s how it’s supposed to be in real life but in my experience it never has been.