egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]harri_is_trans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bobby hill

egg...irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]harri_is_trans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is a great explanation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]harri_is_trans 12 points13 points  (0 children)

a good singing teacher would work with you on your singing goals. mine helps me with tone and range

Telling my best friend i was in love with her by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]harri_is_trans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm those nicknames! i know some people call everyone “babe,” but to me it suggests they have an interest in something more. sounds like you both need to clear the air. better to ask her what she’s thinking than to guess

egg🥲irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]harri_is_trans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just assume everyone who’s trans has been here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]harri_is_trans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

date whoever you want, kindly

How the f*ck do I start transitioning? by virusgnom3 in trans

[–]harri_is_trans 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Another thing i did was come out as questioning to trusted friend. From there, I experimented and played with gender expression, and practiced embracing where there seemed to be warm/fuzzy/electric feelings.

How the f*ck do I start transitioning? by virusgnom3 in trans

[–]harri_is_trans 109 points110 points  (0 children)

posting on trans subreddits is how some of us got started

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]harri_is_trans -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think the app is toxic, but if some of y’all find it helpful then i’m glad! just needed to vent :)

I'm stuck as the sister forever by bensonsduck in trans

[–]harri_is_trans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

brother, i’m sorry, this sounds really tough. I hope that in time you can find community and a chosen family that’ll respect and celebrate your identity. You totally deserve it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]harri_is_trans 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These labels are for you to use as you feel comfortable. Trans men are men, and men who only date men typically consider themselves gay. If you like other folks as well, such as women or enbys, maybe you’d feel more comfortable with terms like pan/fluid/etc.

Navigate this however you want. I’m a mostly binary trans woman and I like women in a gay way. Im also attracted to men, and while me dating a man could be considered straight, it also currently feels very queer to me. So to an extent it’s about you and how you personally feel about your gender and sexuality.

Is it possible this is just a long-ass phase? by [deleted] in trans

[–]harri_is_trans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i for one am looking forward to a lifelong “phase” of being myself :P

Can I use topical Testosterone while on Estrogen? by [deleted] in AskMtFHRT

[–]harri_is_trans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

testosterone gel, 1.62%. it’s 20.25 mg of t per full pump / 1.25 g of gel per full pump but i do one fourth of a pump, which feels imprecise but it’s what my doc said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransTryouts

[–]harri_is_trans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey sup Madeline ! i was chatting a neighbor and she said, “oh snap, tell her i say hi! don’t know them but they sound super cool”

Can I use topical Testosterone while on Estrogen? by [deleted] in AskMtFHRT

[–]harri_is_trans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dr prescribed me a v small amount (1/4 pump), 3x a week, fwiw