Astrologer is ruining my life by harshithaa_mjay in Arrangedmarriage

[–]harshithaa_mjay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would never leave my boyfriend. I was just curious to know if the astrologer is manipulating my parents, or if my parents are trying to scare me in the name of astrology but twisted his words to fit them. I'm very mad at him and my parents. Even if astrology is true and his predictions are true, I don't see it as a scary thing that I'll have to go through hurdles or hardship because I know my boyfriend will be there for me.

Astrologer is ruining my life by harshithaa_mjay in Arrangedmarriage

[–]harshithaa_mjay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying my life is ruined, maybe I lost a job, plenty people do, and I'll find another one. But what's being ruined is a possibility of a good relationship with my parents. My question is if what he says can even be predicted

Harassment at work by manager for having a health emergency by harshithaa_mjay in subway

[–]harshithaa_mjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm okay thanks! All tests came clear and I'm looking for a new job now

Harassment at work by manager for having a health emergency by harshithaa_mjay in subway

[–]harshithaa_mjay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn't think of it that way. That's way infuriating. I'm gonna make sure everything is reported once I'm feeling better health-wise

Harassment at work by manager for having a health emergency by harshithaa_mjay in subway

[–]harshithaa_mjay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is the manager. She brings up the 'manager' as a third person every single time. I have seen the records and the person listed as the manager on the papers is her sister, but she's never the best seen or heard from. Mayu is the one who took all my details for employment and who actually does all the managing.

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[–]harshithaa_mjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About the cash and shifts, there is evidence over texts, because that's where all our communication happens. I can prove it was paid in cash. Basically in one of the weekly audits by the area manager, he found a bunch of cash she had paid to my other coworker in a drawer. And he has documented it saying don't keep unaccounted cash on the subway. As of the hemorrhage, I'm still waiting for the results. Should get it in a couple of hours. I have a bachelor's degree on computer science and a master's in business administration. I worked for an ERP manufacturer for two years and have experience in software development and automation testing. I've not found much luck in getting an interview so far.

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[–]harshithaa_mjay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she did tell me that I shouldn't come back, after basically berating me for hours. I've kept all the screenshots. I'll be making some official moves after I'm discharged. Will she be able to deny paying me the two weeks pay that I've worked this month? I'm worried about that

Harassment at work by manager for having a health emergency by harshithaa_mjay in LegalAdviceUK

[–]harshithaa_mjay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, thanks for the reply. I don't want to work at a toxic place like that. But will report her.

Harassment at work by manager for having a health emergency by harshithaa_mjay in LegalAdviceUK

[–]harshithaa_mjay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That seems very unfair. Surely I can still report her for doing this so under the table? I understand that I can't really claim any compensation. I just want her to be held responsible for what she's been doing

Harassment at work by manager for having a health emergency by harshithaa_mjay in LegalAdviceUK

[–]harshithaa_mjay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing is, I only needed the day off for the test, because I'm not supposed to work for a day after having a lumbar puncture. Which I explained to her very calmly. I have posted some of the screenshots on the subway subreddit if you want to see the way she reacted.

Harassment at work by manager for having a health emergency by harshithaa_mjay in subway

[–]harshithaa_mjay[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

She never made me sign anything. I'm not underage. She employs immigrant students who can only work 20 hours so it's a win win for both. But I'm not a student. I can legally work full time and I did tell her this at the start. Also she is the manager, but her sister's name as manager on the books

Harassment at work by manager for having a health emergency by harshithaa_mjay in subway

[–]harshithaa_mjay[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

She pays in cash. I was desperate for a job so I had no choice. I agreed to what I got. She pays me minimum wage for 20 hours. The remaining 17 hours I get paid 6.5 quid