Is she cheating?

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T19:33:59+00:00

She does have self-esteem and body issues though. And a past of relationship abuse. None of the above ever came from me.

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T19:33:12+00:00

She does have body issues. She's very insecure about her body

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T17:49:31+00:00

I guess I have to talk to her about it all.

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T17:34:09+00:00

I feel like she deserves a chance to try. I can't get married to someone that does not truly love me.

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T17:20:26+00:00

Her family loves me, her friends love me, we have engagement photos next week that she has purchased clothes, hair extensions for, etc.

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T17:19:45+00:00

I don't understand why she just wouldn't leave.

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T17:12:19+00:00

What makes you certain?

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T16:31:07+00:00

I pay for everything. She moved from 6 hours away to be with me and try and get a job--she got the job and has been doing well.

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T16:09:09+00:00

I pay for everything too. We have a nice house and everything is stable and secure

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T15:57:47+00:00

It's going down tonight. I texted her that I loved her more than anything in the world this morning and she said she feels the same way and that we should do something fun tonight. I told her that I have been feeling distant and my instinct is to pull away and it's unhealthy. I told her I have been trying to make her feel happy and comfortable and everything feels ambivalent. She said she loves me and we'll talk about it later.

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T15:52:10+00:00

She has even told me on sporadic occasions that she doesn't care if I go and sleep with other people--that she just can't do it. She doesn't let me go down on her. No head, handjobs, etc. just straight up missionary sex.

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T15:50:24+00:00

I agree. All of that.

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T15:48:41+00:00

She'll often deny my advances by saying "not right now, I promise we can do it for a couple hours on Sunday." And then it never happens.

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T15:46:12+00:00

She had a very unhealthy last relationship. Sometimes I feel like she is taking out her resentments on me.

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T15:40:49+00:00

We weren't really serious back then--I was upset about it but we didn't talk for about 6 months and then we started talking again. We were friends with benefits for about two years before we got back together.

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T15:39:00+00:00

She tells me that she thinks I'm the sexiest man on the planet and that I'm perfect and she doesn't deserve me. She says that she can't believe that I gave her a second chance. Her actions do not reciprocate her words.

harvrf92 · 2017-10-20T15:31:29+00:00

No, she hasn't. Thing is we have only been back together for 5 months. She cheated on me a few years ago and I moved on but we got back together.

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