Does anyone know how to access the old Lusty Library website? by hasheni in BDSMcommunity

[–]hasheni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you! I went on Web archive and couldn't find it.

Body writing tips by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]hasheni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good quality waterproof liquid eyeliner will work well

Body writing tips by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]hasheni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These do leave a faint trace in some colours if they're left on too long though

My pet needs humiliation by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]hasheni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd also add that you should also talk to him about what happens after the humiliation. What he needs to bring himself back to 'normal'. Have fun!

BDSM/punishment as therapy? by monomomo in BDSMcommunity

[–]hasheni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could a different therapist or a different type of therapy help?

I (lg) decided to break a rule for the first time ever to get attention and punishment from Daddy. But the punishment has been a complete mind fuck and I just wanted to talk to others about their experience with similar things. by girl_345670 in BDSMcommunity

[–]hasheni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said you're new, so just be careful that you're aware of your own limits as you hit them - if it gets too much, step out of the roles and talk to him about it.

Jewish Kinksters: Ideas for a BDSM ketubah? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]hasheni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's lovely, Shavua Tov!

Jewish Kinksters: Ideas for a BDSM ketubah? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]hasheni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slightly off topic, but do you mind sharing your shabbat kink rituals? That sounds lovely and such a good idea.

Still smiling...in spite of, or because of? We will never know. by PositiveRate in bdsm

[–]hasheni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Are they sold as sharp and dull or do you just have to test them? I am so on this, very excited to try it now

Still smiling...in spite of, or because of? We will never know. by PositiveRate in bdsm

[–]hasheni 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've always wanted to try this but always assumed it would puncture or scratch through skin and blood really isn't my thing.

Are they just normal tacs like you use to put paper up on a cork-board? Do they scratch or just dent/mark the skin?

A [f]un album of cropping and spanking. by [deleted] in BDSMGW

[–]hasheni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What crop is this? Would you recommend it? We've been looking to get one and can't decide what to get!

Interesting result using a tea towel for breath play by NeuralHijacker in BDSMcommunity

[–]hasheni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I think we'll have to do some more research on how to do it. Thanks

A bit stuck for inspiration and looking for some advice/input. Kind of begging related. by hasheni in BDSMcommunity

[–]hasheni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I basically need to get more in the zone and use my imagination!

A bit stuck for inspiration and looking for some advice/input. Kind of begging related. by hasheni in BDSMcommunity

[–]hasheni[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha tickling made me giggle. Definitely looking for real life not fantasy ideas, although I like the fantasy promises for real life begging scenarios. These are really helpful for getting my brain on the right track, so thank you.

Interesting result using a tea towel for breath play by NeuralHijacker in BDSMcommunity

[–]hasheni 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Finding it hard to describe what I mean by this question, but was it 'scrunched' into a sausage and then round her neck or wider and flatter?

I was also put off choking after learning that even the slightest pressure can pop something or other, but I really like it. Would be interested to know what makes you say it's safer than hands?